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Men: Do you feel that you are gender confused because you enjoy pegging?
08/03/2011
08/03/2011
I'm straight and have no desire to try pegging.
08/03/2011
No confusion, enjoy it, and expands how I can show love to myself while also incorporating my partner. Anal stimulation, and now as I get older pegging, has always been a major part of my sexuality and the focus of my fantasies. By acting them out it allows me to be more whole as a person, in relation to my sexuality, as I am not hiding that side of myself. The more people see it (those I trust and have invited into this world) the more I see myself as owning the space my life takes up
09/08/2011
I answered for my lover because he answers this one all the time. He isn't gender confused, he's male and (Mostly-since I'm genderqueer he counts me as such) straight.
10/04/2011
I don't think a guy into pegging has any reason to question whether or not he is gender confused. Liking anal penetration doesn't have to relate to a guy's gender or sexual orientation. It's an act he can participate in as a man with a female partner.
The only confusing thing is why people raise questions like this one. It contributes to the anxiety of men who would otherwise enjoy pegging but are afraid to admit it because they worry others will take that to mean that they are gay or transgender when that is not the case.
The only confusing thing is why people raise questions like this one. It contributes to the anxiety of men who would otherwise enjoy pegging but are afraid to admit it because they worry others will take that to mean that they are gay or transgender when that is not the case.
10/10/2011
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Been there, done that now. Yay, I can peg!
Originally posted by
Kynky Kytty
This is exactly why I want to try pegging. Just about giving pleasure.
11/08/2011
I'm bi, married and enjoy pegging. And I'm not confused in the slightest.
11/10/2011
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Exactly! Stimulation can feel good no matter what your sexuality or gender identity. I wish pegging and male anal play wasn't so stigmatized.
Originally posted by
Victoria
I think guys should feel free to explore and receive pleasure however they wish. It's a shame that men still feel self-conscious about anal play because of the fear that people might make assumptions about them, or because they have hang ups
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I think guys should feel free to explore and receive pleasure however they wish. It's a shame that men still feel self-conscious about anal play because of the fear that people might make assumptions about them, or because they have hang ups about sexuality. We have the ability and space here to show our compassion for any person that is interested in trying new things. Hopefully this kind of sharing makes people feel more assured and open minded,
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11/15/2011
No confusion...it just turns us both on.
09/28/2012
Weirdbeard
Personally I am. I enjoy getting pegged so much. It opened me up (literally and figuratively). Found myself wanting more, I Asked my wife if she wanted a realistic strap on or normal slick (I wanted her to pick realistic) she chose realistic. So I bought it, I like being Sub. I’ve got on my knees and sucked it, shoved it in and loved every minute of it. I love my wife and her pussy, but I think maybe somewhere deep down I’d like to experience a man, know that I’d only be able to take, rather than give. Writing this out is making me more confused. Glad I found this forum because I’ve never admitted this to anyone, including admitting to myself.
10/05/2020
No not me. I enjoy the thought of my wife pegging me but I have zero interest in men. I enjoy the intimacy it brings, the enjoyable anal and prostate stimulations and the multiple orgasms.
10/06/2020
Pegmyassdeep01
I do not feel confused I only know that I enjoy women fulfilling their needs. I have found that being pegged is stimulating and arousing and I enjoy having women taking their aggression out on me and I think that's why they enjoy pegging men
09/24/2023
Pegmyassdeep01
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Have you ever considered starting off with rimming and then maybe a gentle nudge of one of your fingers. I believe going into it slow leads to things that you would like to do in the future such as pegging ??
Originally posted by
Elodie
My boyfriend doesn't want to do it, but it has nothing to do with gender identity or fears of sexual confusion, he just doesn't want anything up his butt.
09/24/2023
Pegmyassdeep01
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I am now 56 years of age and I have always enjoyed having the pleasure of a woman pegging me. I feel that women enjoy being dominant just for a little bit and being the aggressor because it's no different than a man doing what he wants to do with a woman ??
Originally posted by
Victoria
I think guys should feel free to explore and receive pleasure however they wish. It's a shame that men still feel self-conscious about anal play because of the fear that people might make assumptions about them, or because they have hang ups
...
more
I think guys should feel free to explore and receive pleasure however they wish. It's a shame that men still feel self-conscious about anal play because of the fear that people might make assumptions about them, or because they have hang ups about sexuality. We have the ability and space here to show our compassion for any person that is interested in trying new things. Hopefully this kind of sharing makes people feel more assured and open minded,
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09/24/2023
Looks like I missed the poll itself, but as a straight guy who enjoys playing with his anus and prostate, gender identity never came up, it was just something I thought would work for me, and it has. My friends, however... they aren't so convinced, and have no clue what they're missing.
09/27/2023
I’m straight, and I’m completely obsessed and turned on with any butt stuff. Plug me up!!! No gender confusion here, it’s never crossed my mind. I just go with what feels good and what’ll get me to a higher level of ecstasy.
10/17/2023
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