I have a Sexual dilemma...

zz1aag zz1aag
Me and a girl were seeing each other a while back.
We ended up getting close and having sex.
My side of the story: I had never been with a girl who squirted, so I kinda got grossed out. I kept going and never said anything because I wanted to make sure I didn't offend her or hurt her feelings as it is something she has no control over. Also considering maybe people out there actually think squirting is hot. Anyways
Her Side of the story: She loved it and claims it was the best sexual experience of her life. She tells everyone how great it was and how magical it was.

Dilemma: After that night, I decided I could not date her as she squirted and I did not like that at all. Good thing was that I was about to travel so I had a resonable excuse for why we should not commit to a relationship. So now we are jsut friends and its great. But problem is that she keeps telling her friends how great the sex was and when I meet with her friends is "oh, finally meet the famous girl who rocket her world" and i just kinda grin and not my head.

Im having some trouble trying to figure out if I should just tell her that I did not like it as much as she did or if I should just take the complement and keep it to myself. Ive told my friends about this and they think its best I dont say anything. Any input?
It would be great if anyone who actually squirts can put some insight. I would trully appreciate it.
08/10/2012
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- Kira - - Kira -
Why would you tell her it wasn't good for you? You'll just make her self-conscious about something that she has no control over. Lots of guys really like squirting and plenty females wish they could. Don't ruin a good thing for her.
08/10/2012
SMichelle SMichelle
I would say don't say anything. It's only going to make her feel uncomfortable and self-conscious.

Now, if you get uncomfortable hearing that she's telling others about how you "rocked her world", you could always just tell her that it makes you a little self-conscious and uncomfortable that she tells other people about it.
08/10/2012
AlbrightsNaughty AlbrightsNaughty
Being that I am the type to "squirt" when I really get into it its not a bad thing and I would just keep that to your self. Its something that she can't control and shouldn't feel ashamed or akward about.. Trust me I use to feel weird when I did that the first time.. Just glad I was with a guy that really liked that kinda of thing..

As for her telling other people about it. If I was you I would just tell her that you really dont like personal info put out there like that and what you do in the bedroom is your personal business not the worlds.. If that upsets her then sorry but thats stuff about you..

Hope that helps you out some hun
08/10/2012
Ansley Ansley
Do you intend on sleeping with her again? Because, if you don't then yeah no point in ruining her high.

If you do, then you need to say something.
08/10/2012
playsalot playsalot
I enjoy it when I make a girl squirt. I don't think you should hurt someones feelings with something they don't have control of.
08/10/2012
Geogeo Geogeo
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Originally posted by - Kira -
Why would you tell her it wasn't good for you? You'll just make her self-conscious about something that she has no control over. Lots of guys really like squirting and plenty females wish they could. Don't ruin a good thing for her.
I agree
08/11/2012
zz1aag zz1aag
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Originally posted by AlbrightsNaughty
Being that I am the type to "squirt" when I really get into it its not a bad thing and I would just keep that to your self. Its something that she can't control and shouldn't feel ashamed or akward about.. Trust me I use to feel ... More
Thank you. I appreciate the honestly. Based on all of the great responses I have decided that I will not say anything. When the time is right I will tell her to maybe not tell the whole world about our sexual experience. Thanks.
08/12/2012
charletnarouh charletnarouh
If you're not comfortable with her telling people, that's a separate issue from the squirting. As everyone else said, definitely don't tell her you didn't like the squirting. If it really squicks you, just don't sleep with her again. Don't lie to her, just tell her you would just rather be friends right now. I, for one, think squirting or soaking is about the hottest thing in the world (but then, there's really nothing a healthy vagina can do that will turn me off. I consider it all part of the very wonderful package). And given that she's raving about your skills in bed, it sounds like her squirting was probably a huge compliment to those skills so props on that. If you're that good, you may have a hard time avoiding the super-soaker reaction, so I'd like to gently encourage you to maybe learn to appreciate the beauty of what a sexual woman is capable of, but to each their own. If it's not your thing, it's not. I've been with girls that were self conscious that they got too wet, that they squirted or gushed, that they had a smell or taste (again, healthy, not talking about an infection), that their muscles contracted strongly, paranoid beyond reason that they would spontaneously begin menstruating and otherwise freaked about just about anything else their vaginas were capable of and given my attitude about it and my total and complete love of sex with women and everything to do with it, that can be pretty frustrating and I feel really sorry for those women. So if she's confident about her vag and her sex, just let sleeping dogs lie, and don't engage her sexually again. Ok, off the soap box.
On to my other point. If you don't like her bragging about your sexual prowess, just tell her, hey, I'm not comfy with you telling everyone about what happened privately between us. There's absolutely nothing wrong with not wanting the whole world to know those intimate details, and you don't need to bring up the fact that you didn't like her squirting to tell her not to talk about you like that. I wouldn't forbid her from talking about it, because, hey, a girl needs to have girl talk sometimes, ya know, and if it was really that awesome for her, well, naturally she needs to tell folks about this amazing experience she had. Just ask her maybe not to name you when she talks about it or not to point out that she was talking about you if/when those she's told meet you. Just tell her it makes you self-conscious or whatever, or you're just not comfortable with other people knowing. That's a completely separate issue from the squirting thing. Leave the squirting alone, but if you wanna keep your sexual exploits private, I see no reason not to tell her that without bring up the other.
08/18/2012
Noelle Noelle
Quote:
Originally posted by zz1aag
Me and a girl were seeing each other a while back.
We ended up getting close and having sex.
My side of the story: I had never been with a girl who squirted, so I kinda got grossed out. I kept going and never said anything because I wanted to ... More
I'd just keep it to myself. Let her know in a nice way, you aren't interested in any kind of a relationship with her except friendship. If she's cool, great! If not, oh well.
08/18/2012
Undecided Undecided
I agree with what a lot of the other contributors have mentioned. I am a squirter myself an I have been self conscience about it, if a partner I have isn't into the squirting there isn't much I can do about it. It happens no matter what, if they are going down on me I just simply push their heads away or pull their heads up. Even when I know they are comfortable with my squirting I still try moving their heads. I wouldn't say anything to her about being uncomfortable with her squirting that could make her feel ashamed of it. Now for the bragging about how good you were, I talk to my close friends about everything but I know they won't say anything to my partner. I would just mention Hey, you know I am not comfortable with you telling everyone what happen between us especially if you are meeting these people for the first time an the first thing they mention is your sexual encounter with your ex partner.
08/18/2012
zz1aag zz1aag
Quote:
Originally posted by zz1aag
Me and a girl were seeing each other a while back.
We ended up getting close and having sex.
My side of the story: I had never been with a girl who squirted, so I kinda got grossed out. I kept going and never said anything because I wanted to ... More
thank you all
11/16/2012
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