Strap-On Experiences?

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Strap-On Experiences?

SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
I hear they're over-rated. I've never tried one, personally, but I feel like it would be boring for the wearer and awkward for the receiver... Thoughts?
03/21/2012
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sneako sneako
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Originally posted by SubmissiveFeminist
I hear they're over-rated. I've never tried one, personally, but I feel like it would be boring for the wearer and awkward for the receiver... Thoughts?
if you're both into it, it's surprisingly not awkward. and if you like being penetrated, it feels amazing. and if you're wearing it you can add a bullet vibe for clit stimulation if the pounding of your cock into someone else isn't enough for you.
03/21/2012
charletnarouh charletnarouh
I LOVE strap-on sex. Both wearing and receiving. Though people are often surprised to learn that I tend to have a preference for wearing. I love the way a girl looks, moves, sounds, feels when I'm fucking her. Something about it is a huge turn on for me and I get wetter from wearing as strap-on than almost anything else. It's definitely not the least bit boring to me. I'm unfortunately the bearer of a tiny clit that's tucked neatly inside my labia and which is very fickle and picky about what it needs to be stimulated so I've never had an orgasm from wearing a strap-on, though I know a great many girls who have, both from the turn on of it and from the pressure the dildo puts against her. Sometimes, if the angle is right and the fit of the harness is really good I can feel some pressure against my clit that feels good but isn't enough to get me off. Then, as sneako notes, you can add a bullet vibe. Some harnesses have pockets for a bullet while, if yours didn't, you might be able to rig a jig to use one somehow. Some have success using a dildo that vibrates so that while the dildo is vibrating inside the recipient partner, the wearer is feeling the vibrations at the base of the dildo which is pressed against them. A harness that situates the base of the dildo in the right place is key to the wearer feeling physical stimulation from it. There's also, of course, the double ended dildos, especially ones designed for this purpose like the Share and the Feeldoe (both of which also come in other sizes than the ones I've linked). Share and Feeldoe and I believe there's a few others with a similar design can both be used with or without a harness. I've used the Feeldoe with limited success and when it works it works very well but it depends a great deal on the anatomy of the people involved and works much better, IMO, with a harness. For me, the experience of wearing a strap-on isn't about any physical stimulation I get from the act, it's about all the other ways I'm stimulated, visual, auditory, mental, and just the sensation of our hips rocking together and the thrusting and then, of course, touching her, holding her hips, touching her breasts, kissing her. I may not have an orgasm, but it's terrific all the same. I'm a big, big fan of strap-on sex.
03/24/2012
Caus Caus
Over-rated? As in it's been hyped up? I've never met anyone who's hyped up strap-on sex but I've tried it and for some it can be extremely off-putting while for others it's the greatest on earth! Like most sex acts, it can be polarizing.
03/28/2012
LilyLloyd LilyLloyd
By all means, don't do it if you don't want to, but as someone who's in a BDSM relationship with another woman...I LUFF IT. Both the sensation, and the ways you can use it to play with a power dynamic.
03/28/2012
Liz2 Liz2
I totally love strap-on sex, both to give it and to get it. A comfortable harness is a must, a decent dil and some practice........
For me as the wearer, I need the base of the dil to hit my clit as I thrust. The VixSkin line is perfect for this.
03/28/2012
sexxxxykitter sexxxxykitter
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Originally posted by SubmissiveFeminist
I hear they're over-rated. I've never tried one, personally, but I feel like it would be boring for the wearer and awkward for the receiver... Thoughts?
I disagree with your opinions about strap-on sex but I can understand your thoughts about it since you have never tried it. Having strap-on sex with a partner that you trust is amazing! My partner and I have hours of mind-blowing strap-on sex and we both have multiple orgasms. When you wear a harness the dildo presses up against your clit. I would do some research about strap-on sex there are many different products, harnesses, and dildos out there for all different types of strap-on sex. I love to get fucked by my butch boi I am all for strap-on sex!!!
04/02/2012
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