Do toys help "lesbian bed death"?

Rockasaurus Rockasaurus
Do you find that toys help the dreaded lesbian bed death? For any tips, please comment!
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Yes
26  (76%)
No
Other
8  (24%)
Total votes: 34
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Zombirella Zombirella
What is that/does that mean!?
05/02/2012
Rockasaurus Rockasaurus
Quote:
Originally posted by Zombirella
What is that/does that mean!?
Lesbian bed death is the joking reference to when women have been together for so long that they simply aren't having as much sex, like many married couples that experience lulls.
05/02/2012
<3BF <3BF
can't say for lesbians but toys in general should theoretically help any couple through a lull
05/02/2012
iabicpl09 iabicpl09
Quote:
Originally posted by Rockasaurus
Do you find that toys help the dreaded lesbian bed death? For any tips, please comment!
Not sure what that means
05/05/2012
carenautilus carenautilus
Christ, I fucking hate that term. *All* long-term couples have lulls and dry spells. The idea that women are always and necessarily less sexual and/or adventurous than men is nasty and sexist.

Sorry, pet peeve. Anyway, many couples find toys to be helpful for getting out of ruts, but they won't do any good with love, patience and (most of all) good communication.
05/05/2012
Tangerine Tangerine
Anything to spice it up and make it more exciting
05/07/2012
Bzz Bzz
Quote:
Originally posted by carenautilus
Christ, I fucking hate that term. *All* long-term couples have lulls and dry spells. The idea that women are always and necessarily less sexual and/or adventurous than men is nasty and sexist.

Sorry, pet peeve. Anyway, many couples find toys ... More
Ugh this! It's not at all restricted to lesbians. I would say straight people with kids actually have it more.
05/07/2012
Susen Susen
I prefer no toys, however, being with a girl and enjoying penetration makes a strap on a great idea. And a vibrator because its easier on my partner
05/08/2012
BadassFatass BadassFatass
I like toys and using them with partners...and immediately want to try out a new toy as soon as I get it. My current partner and I have just started using toys together but I'm hoping that she's going to get as excited about them as I do. When she's done with school for the semester and has some free time, I'm thinking of having here get involved here and check things out so we can really find out what we'd both like to explore together.
05/09/2012
ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Rockasaurus
Do you find that toys help the dreaded lesbian bed death? For any tips, please comment!
Totally knew what this meant from watching Queer as Folk. Toys help with any dry spell in my opinion.
05/24/2012
marshmallow marshmallow
yes!
05/31/2012
britanny0620 britanny0620
Had to look it up to find out what that meant, but after a bit of research - yes, I believe it would help
05/31/2012
zz1aag zz1aag
Quote:
Originally posted by britanny0620
Had to look it up to find out what that meant, but after a bit of research - yes, I believe it would help
anything should help
06/03/2012
SouthernBelle SouthernBelle
I'm amused by the term "lesbian bed death". I realize that a lot of couples go through lulls, no matter gender and sexual identity, but someone named it for lesbians, and I find it funny... because I've been there.

Toys have definitely helped with lesbian bed death in my relationship. We went from having sex occasionally to all the time when we introduced toys.
06/03/2012
ginainohio ginainohio
LOL i love that term had never heard it till now my girlfriend will call me that from now on
06/03/2012
Megan Jean Megan Jean
I think someone should start a band named Lesbian Bed Death.

But, I agree with everyone, introducing toys into any sexual relationship should rekindle the spark, so to say
06/03/2012
Rey Rey
i think it could certainly contribute to 'fixing' LBD.
But not the sole solution.

Whatever gets you both thinking about sex, and encouraging intimacy again, sure!
06/04/2012
Chief Chief
I've never caught it, so I guess so!
06/05/2012
FrustratedFemme FrustratedFemme
Well, I've never caught it. However, I think that trying new things helps lesbian bed death, so if using toys counts as a new thing for you guys, then yeah, it might help.
12/13/2012
katat katat
havent encountered it yet
02/01/2013
socceras socceras
i think it would help
03/09/2013
J Peach J Peach
Quote:
Originally posted by <3BF
can't say for lesbians but toys in general should theoretically help any couple through a lull
I agree with this statement. It adds spice and spontaneity.
04/15/2013
Total posts: 23
Unique posters: 22