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Lif3sambiguity Lif3sambiguity 11/04/2010

I need help picking out a harness, it will be my second purchase of one and I am interested in one that lasts long, is sturdy when being warn, is easy to clean and maintain... which of these is best and why?

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Lif3sambiguity Lif3sambiguity
suggestions on which would be the best harness for me and my gf, we can be rough in bed and love all positions
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Total votes: 151
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MeliPixie MeliPixie
The harness I would vote on is the SpareParts Joque Harness, which you did not list. My vote was cast for the Lucid Dream Shape No. 9 because of its low cock hole and stable frontal design. However a jock-style harness is your best bet because they are the most stable, two straps wrapping behind your thighs instead of one strap in your butt crack. Hope that helps!
12/07/2010
clp clp
I agree with MeliPixie--double harnesses give better control. I know the Joque has had lots and lots of praise, you may want to check it out.
12/07/2010
kermi91 kermi91
I voted the Curve Kit because I'm partial to the curve dildo and prefer that style of harness. I find the double strap is more comfortable.
12/13/2010
darkkitty darkkitty
Quote:
Originally posted by Lif3sambiguity
suggestions on which would be the best harness for me and my gf, we can be rough in bed and love all positions
Grrl shorts are comfy but lucid dream looks sexy!
12/20/2010
guy4guyz420 guy4guyz420
I like the manbound butt plug harness
01/19/2011
Fuck it. Fuck it.
I don't have any of them, but the one I'm considering out of the list is the grrl shorts.
02/25/2011
Ash&Becca Ash&Becca
If you are looking for sturdy the shorts look like your best option out of your choices.
03/15/2011
Illusional Illusional
Quote:
Originally posted by kermi91
I voted the Curve Kit because I'm partial to the curve dildo and prefer that style of harness. I find the double strap is more comfortable.
I like the way that one looks too.
03/15/2011
That Guy That Guy
I've heard that the Grrl shorts aren't as good as they look.
03/15/2011
Solar Ray Solar Ray
Spareparts makes some really good quality toys/tools. I'd recommend something from them.
03/24/2011
chris PA chris PA
Quote:
Originally posted by Lif3sambiguity
suggestions on which would be the best harness for me and my gf, we can be rough in bed and love all positions
use the feeldoe here and love it.
05/11/2011
C-Rae C-Rae
For me the curve.. I do wanna get the Grr but I've heard it's not too good.. Control wise but I love how it looks like my boxers haha
06/10/2011
Anjulie Anjulie
I like the way the shorts look, but i love my spareparts joque harness. So even though it's not on the list, i def recomment it
06/11/2011
hyperfemmepony hyperfemmepony
The Grrl shorts are really hot on any sized butt.
06/25/2011
big b big b
poke along
06/26/2011
sarki sarki
Shorts harness
06/26/2011
Gingy Gingy
on this list i would go spare parts but think you should also consider the Aslan Jaguar
08/25/2011
CherryDyke CherryDyke
Yeah the feeldoe is pretty great.
08/31/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
I like the Joque too.
09/19/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by CherryDyke
Yeah the feeldoe is pretty great.
But for ACTIVE lovemaking? Mine never stayed in that well.
09/19/2011
carenautilus carenautilus
Though I haven't tried this particular harness, I've super-good experiences with SpareParts. I'd also put in a vote for the Bare as you dare harness.
09/22/2011
Rawhide Rawhide
Of the ones you listed, I'd go with the Curve kit. Latigo leather and nylon are both very sturdy materials, long lasting and easy to maintain, plus the two strap style gives you good stability and control, and the overall look of it is more appealing in my opinion. But it's out of stock

I like to see as much skin as possible, so the one with shorts or the ones with high waisted pieces in the front were automatically out for me. The spareparts one was also out, because although I know they make a quality product, the big wide belt and the pouch in the front just aren't asthetically pleasing to me. Plus I consider it to be way way way overpriced. For that price, you may as well go for an Aslan Leather Jag
09/22/2011
Neurogasm Neurogasm
Gonna have to go with the prevailing opinion and say go with the shorts. Though, I've always had good experiences with SpareParts's work.
09/22/2011
mistressg mistressg
I think the Grrl Shorts are cute!
09/22/2011
mizzmilla mizzmilla
spareparts. I love them.
09/23/2011
AmberM AmberM
The grrl shorts (:
10/25/2011
eroticmutt eroticmutt
Quote:
Originally posted by Lif3sambiguity
suggestions on which would be the best harness for me and my gf, we can be rough in bed and love all positions
I would say spare parts- heard great things about them
10/25/2011
Girly Girl Girly Girl
purple is cute
10/25/2011
Maxx Maxx
Quote:
Originally posted by Lif3sambiguity
suggestions on which would be the best harness for me and my gf, we can be rough in bed and love all positions
Id say the shorts. I have one that goes up my ass. That hurts after a while. Plus the straps itself can sometimes hurt too. I would find the shorts more comfortable.
11/14/2011
Kabachu Kabachu
grrrl
01/31/2012
Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
grrl shorts looks cute
01/31/2012
GONE! GONE!
The Grrl Shorts are the cutest ones, imo.
02/01/2012
funinthesun916 funinthesun916
Grrl shorts strap-on harness
03/20/2012
TheParrishism TheParrishism
The Grrl shorts are quite difficult to get the right size. It can be quite painful if you get it a size to small. We had to cut the elastic to get them to be a little less painful.
03/20/2012
tigertiger tigertiger
Quote:
Originally posted by Lif3sambiguity
suggestions on which would be the best harness for me and my gf, we can be rough in bed and love all positions
have fun
03/22/2012
Caus Caus
Try the Squareparts one.
03/23/2012
Secret Pleasure Secret Pleasure
they all look fun
03/26/2012
P3ngu1n78 P3ngu1n78
Squareparts!
04/18/2012
GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
I haven't tried the Spareparts Theo but I've been using a SpareParts Joque Harness for some time and I absolutely love it. It's very well made and keeps the dildo very secure and in place. Also it's machine washable which is super convenient.
04/26/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
Curve kit.
04/26/2012
Rockasaurus Rockasaurus
Quote:
Originally posted by Lif3sambiguity
suggestions on which would be the best harness for me and my gf, we can be rough in bed and love all positions
The Grrl shorts would be great for a lost of positions without slipping!
05/01/2012
VelvetDragon VelvetDragon
I love my Flame Kit from Tantus, but I'd also suggest the SpareParts Joque.
05/02/2012
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Lif3sambiguity
suggestions on which would be the best harness for me and my gf, we can be rough in bed and love all positions
I'd try the Grrl shorts strap-on harness (Large).
05/06/2012
ButchAndFemme ButchAndFemme
According to my wife, nothing is hotter than seeing a sneak peek of the Joque harness under my pants. As soon as she sees a bit of that thick black band, she's dripping with excitement.

Now I know that doesn't say much about the functionality of the harness, but be sure to get something that looks good too. (=
07/21/2012
Lori Gonzales Lori Gonzales
girl shorts
10/10/2012
Zandrock Zandrock
Spare parts
10/10/2012
Total posts: 47
Unique posters: 46