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In most people's eyes it's okay or thought of as hot when two women are together but not two men. I dont udnerstand why?
Generally, that's a mindset I see from straight men. It's seen as "two of what I like! Awesome!" "BUT MEN. EW. HOMOPHOBIA." I suppose it comes from a bit of self-injection into things people find as arousing... for a straight guy to find two women attractive, that's not a problem. But for a straight guy to accept two men being together, well, that obviously (not really) means he wants it to happen to him!
It's like the popularity of yaoi (male on male manga) with straight women...
It's just a different approach to homophobia, really. "It's okay if it's what you're attracted to but not okay if you're not attracted to said gender." It bothers me too.