I was upset, so I looked at his internet history just to see what he'd been up to. (I know this seems like an invasion of privacy, but we have the passwords to each others laptops and no expectations of things remaining secret) I saw that he spent all of his time before leaving for work today playing facebook games and looking at pictures of the older woman he was about to ask out before we got together. He also sent her a message asking if she'd like to go out for coffee or lunch before classes started again. SO I changed his laptop password and sent him a text telling him why and that he wasn't allowed to go out with her if he wanted to continue a relationship with me.
I know this is a rough time for him, but it's hard for me too. And as many times and I've explained to him that I can't take care of everything (and he's agreed with me and promised to do more), things like this are still happening. I don't know what to do anymore. What do you all think?