Please choose the gender(s) that best describe your identity. Now, please choose the sexual orientation(s) that best describe your identity.

P3ngu1n78 P3ngu1n78
How do gender and sexuality intersect? I want to study how sexual orientations differ amongst all the genders. I understand that your identities may or may not be listed. I apologize.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Male
hatman , jeangel246 , Allstars316 , TheParrishism , kmilly , angel142stx , sneako , Ciao. , jayinchicago , El-Jaro , MistressDandelion , Thomas90 , Darklyvan , Bbiz , transboy , eroticmutt , Caulfield , maccaj , Llahsram , dhig , butts , Ly-Ra , Schattenstern , tardisblue , BurntToast , sodapin , Research , JG24FanUK , Anteaterz , ejrbrndps , smc3115 , transfag , pestilence , TakeHimAway , canislytherin , neffingnuts , GlassCaverns , Stinkytofu10 , radioboy , AnotherBrother , aaronlt , Andrew1992 , digit88 , FindingJames , Phosphorous Tick , Ukulele Guy , mamaseatspoop , Trysexual , Kenneth Fort , adam71 , A.S. , FHeemz , johnnylove , Gluesnffr , needapacker , Lummox , LoganAshlee.
57
Trans Masculine
TransMarc , MasonM , Voir , kmilly , sneako , Rab , willk , Bbiz , transboy , eroticmutt , Caulfield , violets , temka , Sam the Man , maccaj , x203 , tardisblue , tA , Phineas James Keane , Rhiulan , Youssii , TakeHimAway , vitriolicvertigo , neffingnuts , TheirPet , joja , GlassCaverns , radioboy , GenderSexplorations , Pantransguy , mamaseatspoop , Genderfree , jsnyder87 , IamKC , alextge , lexxxmoonchild
36
Genderqueer
catsin , SizeQueenAndProud , SalmiakkiVodka , freud13 , sneako , TheGreat , Rab , guro , kenny.the.dinosaur , VelvetDragon , tA , Phineas James Keane , Kiwi Green , Willowe , Youssii , pestilence , TakeHimAway , thisisadeletedaccount , CoffeeCup , meezerosity , vitriolicvertigo , TheirPet , AnotherBrother , britanny0620 , noabody , lecanis , Bodhi , Danneh , quantumspork , Billie Bones , Rainbowrings , zaftigzoo , Liberalqueer , So Long Ya Doofuses! , Asher , Happenstance , tinybird , treehugger , alextge , lexxxmoonchild
40
Trans Feminine
Ciao.
1
Female
Gone (LD29) , Girl Deviante , Airen Wolf , kendra30752 , humblepie , Zombirella , smashthepatriarchy , Bex1331 , Elnoa , sktb0007 , Ryuson , Sangsara , RomanticGoth , Missmarc , VioletMoonstone , Terri69 , ghalik , Ciao. , - Kira - , vegweg , Katelyn , Ansley , StarFire , DeliciousSurprise , dks210 , kenny.the.dinosaur , VelvetDragon , palindromic , x203 , sexystuffeve , Stacy8807 , sleepyjeanne , xOhxSoxScandalousx , Mirachaya , SubmissiveFeminist , pinkbeckie , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Beck , Ice1 , kawigrl , aliceinthehole , indiechick , PinkiePie , meezerosity , Jewlickah , joja , AlianneCimorene , p0larb3ar , ily , nori , Badass , All His , Feisty , quantumspork , BoobCopter , marshmallow , LaSchwartz , Demonise , travelnurse , KrissyNovacaine , padmeamidala , Rainbowrings , freshbananas , TrenchcoatHunters , MrsHouseWife , Lildrummrgurl7 , So Long Ya Doofuses! , The Kitty , LaceyMalice , Supervixen , Shayla , Kitka , Jesyra , Sinfully , tinybird , Zakkie , JDear , KimberlyFDR
78
Other gender
TransMarc , sneako , violets , kenny.the.dinosaur , TheirPet , thekindthorn , Llewey , treehugger , Alatariel Surion
9
Androphilic (interested in men/masculine people)
Gone (LD29) , Girl Deviante , Airen Wolf , humblepie , jeangel246 , TheParrishism , Voir , angel142stx , sneako , ghalik , jayinchicago , MistressDandelion , transboy , Ansley , eroticmutt , dks210 , maccaj , butts , Phineas James Keane , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , aliceinthehole , TakeHimAway , CoffeeCup , vitriolicvertigo , joja , AnotherBrother , p0larb3ar , Bodhi , thekindthorn , LaSchwartz , KrissyNovacaine , freshbananas , So Long Ya Doofuses! , Llewey , A.S. , treehugger , KimberlyFDR , LoganAshlee.
38
Pansexual
hatman , catsin , smashthepatriarchy , Bex1331 , Elnoa , Sangsara , MasonM , Voir , freud13 , sneako , vegweg , Katelyn , Bbiz , violets , VelvetDragon , palindromic , x203 , Ly-Ra , Schattenstern , BurntToast , tA , Phineas James Keane , sleepyjeanne , SubmissiveFeminist , Willowe , Beck , Anteaterz , Youssii , TakeHimAway , indiechick , PinkiePie , thisisadeletedaccount , vitriolicvertigo , Jewlickah , canislytherin , TheirPet , joja , AnotherBrother , britanny0620 , lecanis , nori , Badass , quantumspork , BoobCopter , thekindthorn , GenderSexplorations , Pantransguy , Rainbowrings , TrenchcoatHunters , Ukulele Guy , The Kitty , Kitka , Jesyra , Genderfree , Sinfully , lexxxmoonchild
56
Gynephilic (interested in women/feminine people)
Gone (LD29) , Girl Deviante , SizeQueenAndProud , TransMarc , RomanticGoth , kmilly , sneako , ghalik , TheGreat , Ciao. , El-Jaro , Rab , Darklyvan , willk , Caulfield , kenny.the.dinosaur , Llahsram , x203 , tardisblue , Stacy8807 , BurntToast , sodapin , Research , JG24FanUK , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Ice1 , kawigrl , aliceinthehole , TakeHimAway , vitriolicvertigo , Jewlickah , Stinkytofu10 , radioboy , Andrew1992 , p0larb3ar , nori , thekindthorn , marshmallow , PapaCass89 , digit88 , Billie Bones , KrissyNovacaine , Rainbowrings , Phosphorous Tick , FHeemz , Lummox , alextge , JDear
48
Asexual
SalmiakkiVodka , TheParrishism , Kiwi Green , meezerosity , AlianneCimorene , Danneh , zaftigzoo , A.S. , treehugger
9
Other sexuality
Gone (LD29) , kendra30752 , jeangel246 , Ryuson , sneako , ghalik , - Kira - , eroticmutt , guro , DeliciousSurprise , Sam the Man , palindromic , x203 , xOhxSoxScandalousx , Mirachaya , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , smc3115 , transfag , pestilence , TakeHimAway , neffingnuts , TheirPet , GlassCaverns , radioboy , aaronlt , ily , All His , thekindthorn , FindingJames , TrenchcoatHunters , mamaseatspoop , Liberalqueer , Trysexual , Lildrummrgurl7 , Supervixen , brevado , Happenstance , johnnylove , needapacker , Zakkie , Alatariel Surion
41
Total votes: 413 (181 voters)
Poll is closed
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Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
Interesting question. I am female, and I answered the way I did because I truly consider myself to be bisexual as opposed to pansexual.
04/06/2012
hatman hatman
Interesting question indeed. I'm MtF and pansexual (thought my partners are usually women/feminine people, I just voted pansexual).
04/07/2012
kendra30752 kendra30752
Quote:
Originally posted by P3ngu1n78
How do gender and sexuality intersect? I want to study how sexual orientations differ amongst all the genders. I understand that your identities may or may not be listed. I apologize.
Straight is not on the list and it's pretty common too. I'm female (was born that way) and I am straight
04/07/2012
Zombirella Zombirella
I'm a female but totally straight. Not to say I don't find women attractive, because I do, just not in a sexual way.
04/07/2012
TransMarc TransMarc
I'm transmasculine. I chose this because I try presenting as male and experience dysphoria relating my chest (etc.) and want more facial hair and all, but I don't really care about what people consider the "male parts" most of the time.
What best described my sexual orientation is gynephilic, but I identify as pansexual on a daily basis because I've been attracted to people who don't identify as either female nor feminine and that I didn't see as such either.
It makes me think: when I'm attracted to some because I see them as feminine, it can be insulting if they don't identify as such that I tell them. At least it's insulting to me when such things happen and people try to FORCE the identity on me!
04/07/2012
Allstars316 Allstars316
I'm a male and straight
04/07/2012
SalmiakkiVodka SalmiakkiVodka
I consider myself to be a genderqueer asexual.
04/07/2012
Sangsara Sangsara
whats the difference between pansexual and bisexual
04/07/2012
MasonM MasonM
Quote:
Originally posted by P3ngu1n78
How do gender and sexuality intersect? I want to study how sexual orientations differ amongst all the genders. I understand that your identities may or may not be listed. I apologize.
Transmasculine and pansexual, but with a slight twist, I guess?

I am sexually attracted to pretty much all genders on sight, however, with females, I have to be in control sexually and won't allow them to touch me during intercourse. With males I can give up that control to them and let myself be touched.

I'm not certain how I would react emotionally toward other transsexuals, since the experience has never come up.
04/07/2012
TransMarc TransMarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Sangsara
whats the difference between pansexual and bisexual
Pansexual: attracted to people of all genders or those with no gender;
bisexual: attracted to people of the two binary genders or looking binary?

Also, contrary to MasonM, I would let female/feminine people touch me, but not male/masculine people, seeing touching as being in control as well.
04/07/2012
TheParrishism TheParrishism
I am not a super sexual person. But I am male and seem to be attracted to masculine people. It is hard to say because I have been attracted to so few people.
04/07/2012
Voir Voir
I voted Trans Masculine for the same reasons as MasonM an TransMarc although I consider my orientation to be primarily Pansexual with heavy Androphilic influences. All the physical partners I've had have been male but I've also been attracted to women, although not for physical characteristics so much as who they were as a person. So if the person themselves fits with me, sex/sexuality/gender etc etc don't matter. Although I tend to also be attracted more by masculine characteristics. A strong jawline, broad shoulders and such.
04/07/2012
RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
Female and pansexual, but I prefer feminine men and women. I normally just say bisexual when asked, because not everybody knows what being pansexual is.
04/07/2012
kmilly kmilly
i guess in some ways, i don't fit into the trans* stereotype. i don't consider myself an ftm. i just consider myself a guy. the fact that i don't have a cock doesn't change that. i answered trans masculine for the sake of the survey, but i feel a thousand percent male. hetero, meaning i like women. that isn't to say that i couldn't be attracted to anyone else. i have penis envy and think all kinds of people are attractive, i suppose. i've just mostly dated cis women. pansexual tendencies or curiousity if anything. still easier to call myself straight.
04/07/2012
hatman hatman
Quote:
Originally posted by Sangsara
whats the difference between pansexual and bisexual
The way I explain it is: Bisexuals swing both ways, Pansexuals swing anyways
04/08/2012
Terri69 Terri69
Quote:
Originally posted by P3ngu1n78
How do gender and sexuality intersect? I want to study how sexual orientations differ amongst all the genders. I understand that your identities may or may not be listed. I apologize.
Very interesting poll...
04/08/2012
MasonM MasonM
Quote:
Originally posted by kmilly
i guess in some ways, i don't fit into the trans* stereotype. i don't consider myself an ftm. i just consider myself a guy. the fact that i don't have a cock doesn't change that. i answered trans masculine for the sake of the survey, ... More
The reason why I choose Transmasculine is because no matter how much of a guy I am, I can't escape the expectations of society that I be female.

At least not yet.

I'm out to most of my friends anymore, but I haven't been able to bring myself out to my parents and until I do, I can't live every day as me. I have to still play the part for them, no matter how badly it hurts.
04/08/2012
sneako sneako
Quote:
Originally posted by P3ngu1n78
How do gender and sexuality intersect? I want to study how sexual orientations differ amongst all the genders. I understand that your identities may or may not be listed. I apologize.
I identify as a queer, genderqueer, trans man.
04/08/2012
Voir Voir
Quote:
Originally posted by kmilly
i guess in some ways, i don't fit into the trans* stereotype. i don't consider myself an ftm. i just consider myself a guy. the fact that i don't have a cock doesn't change that. i answered trans masculine for the sake of the survey, ... More
Regardless of how I see myself it doesn't change the fact that physically my body is female whatever I may choose to call certain parts. I don't think of myself as being FtM, I am male but my body is not and no amount of word twisting will make it such.

But hey I tend to look at things as they are and work from there instead of thinking how I want them to be and trying to figure something out. And it just keeps confusion down to make things as simple as possible so "trans masculine" it is even though I almost did select male at first e_e but didn't because to me that has connotations of physically being male when, physically I am not... atleastnotyet.
04/08/2012
TheGreat TheGreat
Queer FTM
04/09/2012
El-Jaro El-Jaro
Just to let everyone know, I'm bookmarking this post to help with assigning products.
04/09/2012
Thomas90 Thomas90
Biologically female, but male otherwise.
04/10/2012
Rab Rab
I'm genderqueer/transmacul ine and have only ever been into women
04/10/2012
Darklyvan Darklyvan
Quote:
Originally posted by P3ngu1n78
How do gender and sexuality intersect? I want to study how sexual orientations differ amongst all the genders. I understand that your identities may or may not be listed. I apologize.
not really interested in feminine people, just women
04/10/2012
willk willk
Quote:
Originally posted by P3ngu1n78
How do gender and sexuality intersect? I want to study how sexual orientations differ amongst all the genders. I understand that your identities may or may not be listed. I apologize.
It's funny that when trans*masculine isn't an option I end up seeming like a straight cis male and not queer at all. I think that's a little ironic because I am very queer!
04/12/2012
Bbiz Bbiz
I'm FTM and although I listed pansexual I am more inclined to masculine features but I still can be sexually atracted to someone not masculine at all as long as I have a bond with them
04/12/2012
Ansley Ansley
I am a cisgender female, married to a cisgender male. I will have sex with women but I have no interest in being romantic or in a relationship with them.
04/14/2012
eroticmutt eroticmutt
This is weird but I fluctuate between identifying as male and trans-male. Also coincides with changes to my self-consciousness and overall contentment..
04/14/2012
dhig dhig
male. what an interesting variety we have!
04/17/2012
Total posts: 87
Unique posters: 83