For me to go back into the closet, there would have to be some sort of situation where my government is trying to execute me or lock me up or something XP. Coming out the first time was hard enough, I can't do it again @_@! Living stealth, on the other hand, is a very different situation. Regardless, whatever partner at the time will be informed of my trans status. If I don't, they'll eventually notice the lack of penis.