Dick as in clitoris or dick as in packer/strap on?
I absolutely hated my genitals being touched (and my breasts) before I came out, I didn't understand why. Now that I've been out for years and am in a very comfortable relationship, I enjoy it. It 100% had to do with my body dysphoria and my comfort with the person (knowing they respect me as a man).
well, I still hate my breasts being played with hahah, that's not going to change, I just don't have sensitive enough nipples to make up for it.