any other genderqueer or genderfluid people in here? I am FAAB, but identify as an androgyne or girlfag (hard to explain, but sort of like a transfag who doesn't wish to transition. Also, I apologize if the word fag is upsetting to anyone, I use it as reclaimed word of power, and not as a careless slur.) Anyway...I really enjoy feeling as though I am both genders or can slide along the gender continuum, but it can be a very lonely and isolated feeling. I dress somewhat femme most days (I consider femme independent of "female") and wear my hair extremely short to androgynize my appearance. Unfortunately people tend to assume I am a lesbian rather than genderqueer based on my hair (I am romantically open to all genders, but primarily attracted to masculine and other androgynous people). I got extremely upset when a commenter on an article I published criticised me for something I said because they contextualized it as coming from a "straight woman" based pretty much on A. my appearance and B. the fact that I sleep with men.
So I guess I'm curious if there's other genderfluid people in here, and if you struggle with being out, and being taken seriously, especially if you don't always cross dress, take hormones, etc. I do take the pill continuously to suppress menstruation, but that's not a visibly obvious thing.