How comfortable are you having a partner eroticizing your bound chest?

blixa blixa
How comfortable are you or would you be having a partner who enjoyed making your bound chest a part of foreplay or sex, the marks left after binding with bandages, seeing you in your binder, etc.? (Presuming they were doing this totally respectfully.) I know some guys and other people who bind are fine with it, but I'd just like to see what the general opinion is.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Very comfortable/I prefer it
8  (15%)
Moderately comfortable/depends on their attitude
27  (51%)
Not comfortable
13  (25%)
Very uncomfortable/this makes me dysphoric
5  (9%)
Total votes: 53
Poll is closed
03/14/2012
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Teacookie Teacookie
now if only I had the bust size for it to happen T_T
03/14/2012
Lock Lock
Not really at all.
03/14/2012
SexyRayne SexyRayne
As long as im not in horrible pain
03/14/2012
eroticmutt eroticmutt
I would be totally comfortable with that. Already my partner usually sees me in my binder, but I take it off at night and while sleeping to let my body get a break because sometimes it can leave marks, sore spots, etc.

But yeah me personally, I eroticize my own bound chest. I love seeing myself in photos and videos wearing a binder under my shirt and having my flat and manly chest, and it feels good to see myself that way rather than as I had to present when I was younger, because those earlier images are pretty ingrained in my mind and I feel that it will take a long time to cover over that with memories that are newer.
03/15/2012
xxjoel xxjoel
If they weren't being jerks about it, totally. XD Especially if they made it kinky or something. That's fiiiiine by me.
03/15/2012
Interesante Interesante
I've never actually had this happen... But I imagine I would be okay with it, if they were respectful.
03/16/2012
butts butts
My partner likes my chest flat, but he has NO problem if I'm unbound. I have a very small chest anyways, if I'm laying on my back you can barely tell I have breasts. If he said he preferred my chest flat durring sex, I'd be a bit happy actually haha.
03/16/2012
GONE! GONE!
I don't think I would like it because it would make me question if they were a chaser or what. I mean, if they eroticized similar things in general I wouldn't care (Like marks left by straps, or rope bondage, or other binding stuff.). It would really depend on the situation and their reasons.
03/18/2012
TheParrishism TheParrishism
It would bother me because I don't really like the fact that I have to bind. I feel like this would remind me of it. Binding is an unpleasant experience and reminds me of a number of things which I don't like. It would make me think about other stuff which would really take me out of the sexual experience.
03/19/2012
scaredlittleboy scaredlittleboy
I don't like to have to bind and I'd rather have a flat chest, but I do find bound chests to be attractive...
03/19/2012
Rab Rab
for me, it's not the act of binding that's erotic (and really, that part causes a good bit of dyphoria), but it's more about the effect binding produces
I love when my girl runs her hands over my miraculously flat chest and comments on how she can feel my muscles poking through
she never gets down to the soft bits, only grabbing and rubbing my actual pecs
03/21/2012
MasonM MasonM
Quote:
Originally posted by blixa
How comfortable are you or would you be having a partner who enjoyed making your bound chest a part of foreplay or sex, the marks left after binding with bandages, seeing you in your binder, etc.? (Presuming they were doing this totally ... More
My issue isn't so much with my bound chest as with my unbound one.
03/22/2012
Rhiulan Rhiulan
They can play with it all they want, but I would definitely prefer the binder to stay on.
04/29/2012
Voir Voir
I don't want someone messing with my chest period xD so eroticizing binding kinda screams to me they have a thing for a chest being bound - not the masculine look. o_o that was just my impression though... I love seeing my chest flat but uhhh binding gets on my damned nerves B|
04/29/2012
DarthTaco DarthTaco
I actually can't have sex while binding. I've tried, and it wasn't pleasant XP. Damn you asthma @_@. Oh well, I'm still able to enjoy myself unbound. Outside of sex, I don't mind if anyone touches my bound chest. It's flat so screw it :'D.

I don't let my boyfriend do anything sexual with my unbound chest. I don't mind if he squeezes one casually, as long as he adds "honk honk" to it :'P. These things are to be ignored at all times during love making unless it's to do something that will leave a scar or nasty bite mark @_@.
05/01/2012
Youssii Youssii
Quote:
Originally posted by blixa
How comfortable are you or would you be having a partner who enjoyed making your bound chest a part of foreplay or sex, the marks left after binding with bandages, seeing you in your binder, etc.? (Presuming they were doing this totally ... More
I would definitely be uncomfortable if my partner was cis, but the guy I'm sleeping with right now is trans and he has a thing for my chest, whatever form it takes.
He likes to touch my chest *without* my binder on just as much, which I was initially quite uncomfortable about, but as he's trans himself, and obviously doesn't see me as any less male for it, and is very relaxed about both of our bodies, I no longer mind.
05/01/2012
TransMarc TransMarc
I don't want to be reminded that I need to bind to have a flat chest, but I don't know if it would actually makes me dysphoric...
05/01/2012
Ly-Ra Ly-Ra
I don't really like it too much, but she's respectful so it's a lot better than if it was with someone else.
05/04/2012
TakeHimAway TakeHimAway
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Originally posted by Ly-Ra
I don't really like it too much, but she's respectful so it's a lot better than if it was with someone else.
I think it depends.
05/06/2012
ghalik ghalik
Nice poll question. I was just wondering this the other day. I find binders sexy but I don't like that they're so painful.
05/06/2012
31 Flavors 31 Flavors
Quote:
Originally posted by Interesante
I've never actually had this happen... But I imagine I would be okay with it, if they were respectful.
I agree.
05/06/2012
alextge alextge
Quote:
Originally posted by blixa
How comfortable are you or would you be having a partner who enjoyed making your bound chest a part of foreplay or sex, the marks left after binding with bandages, seeing you in your binder, etc.? (Presuming they were doing this totally ... More
It'd make me overly aware of how I had to bind
05/29/2013
treehugger treehugger
Yeah, I wouldn't mind being seen in my binder because that's closer to how I'd like to present, but turning a method of coping with dysphoria into a fetish of sorts... that wouldn't be okay with me.
05/29/2013
needapacker needapacker
I'm post top surgery so i no longer have to bind, but if I did still, i wouldn't allow it. If that situation occured for me- sex would stop their. It feels almost like fetishization to me.
05/30/2013
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Unique posters: 25