How often do you pack?

Boyqueen Boyqueen
Sometimes I feel guilty because I only pack a few times a month, doing it whenever I feel I need it. Others have shamed me for this saying that I shouldn't be taken seriously if I'm so "wishy-washy with my dysphoria" which I think it bullshit.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Every day
2  (8%)
Every other day
1  (4%)
A few times a week
4  (17%)
Once a week
1  (4%)
Never
3  (12%)
Other
13  (54%)
Total votes: 24
Poll is closed
07/23/2012
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DreamWolf DreamWolf
Never, am not into such things...
07/23/2012
Do emu Do emu
Do it whenever you feel like it. It's what YOU prefer to do. There's no law that says you have to pack every day.
07/23/2012
britanny0620 britanny0620
Quote:
Originally posted by Do emu
Do it whenever you feel like it. It's what YOU prefer to do. There's no law that says you have to pack every day.
EXACTLY.
07/23/2012
mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
i dont understand the question. pack what?
07/23/2012
thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
Quote:
Originally posted by mrs.mckrakn
i dont understand the question. pack what?
Pack as in, have a packer in your pants - there's a category for packers and packing straps on this site: link
07/24/2012
thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
I only pack a few times a month when I'm at college, and I don't pack at all when I'm at home. There's no set amount of times you have to wear a packer in order to be taken seriously - you don't have to wear one at all unless you personally feel like it.
07/24/2012
Boyqueen Boyqueen
Quote:
Originally posted by Do emu
Do it whenever you feel like it. It's what YOU prefer to do. There's no law that says you have to pack every day.
Thank you.
07/24/2012
sodapin sodapin
Quote:
Originally posted by Boyqueen
Sometimes I feel guilty because I only pack a few times a month, doing it whenever I feel I need it. Others have shamed me for this saying that I shouldn't be taken seriously if I'm so "wishy-washy with my dysphoria" which I think it bullshit.
I've never packed yet, but I just ordered a Mr. Limpy so hopefully that'll change. I feel up and down about it though. I feel kinda weird about it....like I sorta have to do it for the sake of getting the point across others (if they stare at my pants and see no bulge for example).
07/24/2012
HannahPanda HannahPanda
A few times a week, sometimes less. My partner packs a little more than that.
07/24/2012
hanjonatan hanjonatan
i never used to (even though i've been out/living as male for years) but i started recently and i'll probably be packing daily soon.
07/24/2012
Sangsara Sangsara
I'm negotiating ,y first packer from another member right now so we'll see!
07/24/2012
Charry Charry
I prefer every day, but do whatever feels right.
07/24/2012
butts butts
I pack when going out, maybe once a week. I don't have as heavy bottom dysphoria as I do top, so packing is lower on my needs list, but I do feel more confident when I do.
07/25/2012
snowyslut snowyslut
Quote:
Originally posted by Boyqueen
Sometimes I feel guilty because I only pack a few times a month, doing it whenever I feel I need it. Others have shamed me for this saying that I shouldn't be taken seriously if I'm so "wishy-washy with my dysphoria" which I think it bullshit.
I don't usually pack that often. I have a hard time keeping the packer in one spot, and I've never gotten used to having that feeling there. I only really pack when I get super dysphoric. And aywone who's shaming you or saying that you're wishy washy is a gigantic jerk and should shut up.
07/29/2012
klyte klyte
Pretty often, sometimes a few times a week.
07/29/2012
MistressDandelion MistressDandelion
I packed.. maybe once? Didn't work for me to pass... Even if my packer is quite big.
07/30/2012
LoneOokami LoneOokami
I pack maybe once a month when i go out
05/04/2013
treehugger treehugger
I don't pack, and I feel like it doesn't invalidate your identity at all. Gender doesn't depend on what you have (or don't have) in your pants.
05/05/2013
Ilmenskie Ilmenskie
Sorry people have shamed you for not packing all the time, that's just gross. I hate attitudes like that because it feels like it's equating being a man with having or appearing to have a dick. I don't pack unless I know i'm going to be somewhere where i'll possibly be scrutinized or felt up, it's just a security for me but otherwise i don't really care for packing.
05/07/2013
alextge alextge
Quote:
Originally posted by Boyqueen
Sometimes I feel guilty because I only pack a few times a month, doing it whenever I feel I need it. Others have shamed me for this saying that I shouldn't be taken seriously if I'm so "wishy-washy with my dysphoria" which I think it bullshit.
Never....but I think I want to start
05/08/2013
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Unique posters: 19