I'm wondering a bunch of things actually:
1.) How to secure a packer without making it look too rigid (like it won't even swing naturally while you walk) or too loose (like it would flip across your thigh and make it PLAINLY clear that a cis-penis wouldn't do that)?
2.) Is packing even required for some sports activities with contact near the groin (e.g., wrestling and martial arts)? Like would people even notice if you didn't pack if they were to grapple around your legs?
3.) How would one secure a packer safely to make sure there would be no way for it to fall out whilst still being kind of inconspicuous (e.g., tight uniforms such as gymnastics would show any sort of harness, but the flips may cause you to lose your packer)?
Thanks in advance to anyone who can help!