My partners been very supportive. I just bought my first packer (rolled-up socks did the job, but I definitely like packer better), and the first day I wore it it felt like a very private victory. I got home, and I guess she was looking through some things and realized it was gone, and so when I got home she kept pressing me about my day and getting upset when I didn't tell her. But I felt like, after all this time, this was my special day and I wanted my private victory. Anyway, I eventually told her and said that some things I want to keep to myself, maybe just for that day. Some days I'm not going to want to tell her everything because as public as transition is, it's also very private and some days I just want to relish in the fact that I'm finally being me, for me, not for anyone else. So, my partner is VERY supportive. I'm so appreciative of that support, but sometimes I want my personal space too, you know?