It's obvious that she's just grasping at anything in the hopes that you'll stop your hormonal transition.
You have to have some hard conversations. Discussing that, no you will not stop your hormone treatments and that if she wants to be in your life, she has to accept that. Assure her that you've done the research and that you're aware of all
the changes, risks, and side effects and that you're making an informed
If she still won't stop, just don't reply.