I am FTM and have only begun to transition in small ways (stopped shaving legs, wearing more masculine clothes, etc), but I really do hope to have both top and bottom surgery in the future.
My partner and I entered a relationship as a "straight couple". I identified as a pansexual female when we met but since we've started talking marriage and all that, I've come out to him as transgender/genderquee r. He identifies as a hetero cisgender male, and finding out this information about me was very hard for him, as he's never felt attracted to males or encountered this sort of thing before.
However, he loves me very much and has been supportive beyond belief. He loves me for me, not what's under my clothes, and though it will be hard for him he says he will accept me and support me if/when the time comes for me to transition through hormones and surgery.
So anyway - just looking for anyone else going through a similar experience, and for any information/links you might have that would be helpful! Thank you!