My family knows that my GF is TG and everyone is fine with her.
Of course, we aren't in everybody's face about it either. My close friends who know were quite surprised. Indeed two of my friends, who previously, I'd say were borderline homophobes, have come around to realize that kind of attitude is just wrong. Admittedly there are also some of my coworkers who would probably not be accepting but that aspect of my life is just none of their business anyway. All in all I feel very fortunate that I met my GF she's the light of my life and I love her unconditionally.
Don't give up on finding a decent respectful partner Aalijah-Shaye.