Transgender Sex, What difficulties do you have?
Ilkrissha
Finding stuff to do that pleases both my partner and me simultaneously. >.< I know there are toys like the Share and Feeldoe but very few seem to provide both realism and vibrations or internal stimulation. Ideally, I would like something made out of a material like Vixskin with vibrations.
12/31/2011
Star88
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I have issues on the other side of it being a cisgendered partner of a transwoman. I sometimes feel limited in the things we are able to do that don't make her feel uncomfortable but I don't want to push her boundaries. Doesn't help there's almost nothing out there about sex tips and ideas for trans people except vague comments about figuring out what works.
Originally posted by
XzombehxbearzX
I have a lot of issues and just feel alone with this, anyone else feel this way?
Jan 2, 12:18 am
Edited: Star88; You and i may be in the same boat. Maybe this could help you two.
my girlfriend and i have made a new set of vocab to help her deal with dysphoria. It's words that make her feel more feminine, and still allow the two of us to talk sexually in our long distance relationship.
wet = hard/ anatomically excited
button = the tip of her
front = penis
entrance = her anus
I love calling attention to her hips, her ass, her collarbones, her tiny perky breasts. The parts of her anatomy that she likes (on a good day) And that seems to help with her dysphoria.
my girlfriend and i have made a new set of vocab to help her deal with dysphoria. It's words that make her feel more feminine, and still allow the two of us to talk sexually in our long distance relationship.
wet = hard/ anatomically excited
button = the tip of her
front = penis
entrance = her anus
I love calling attention to her hips, her ass, her collarbones, her tiny perky breasts. The parts of her anatomy that she likes (on a good day) And that seems to help with her dysphoria.
Jan 18, 4:00 pm
Most of the time I have problems with dysphoria. That makes sex awkward for me.
Otherwise, because I have sex with cis- men, I sometimes run into the problem of being fetishized and not being respected or fully seen as a man. If I'm fucking you then I expect you to see me as a man and treat me like any other cis- man.
Otherwise, because I have sex with cis- men, I sometimes run into the problem of being fetishized and not being respected or fully seen as a man. If I'm fucking you then I expect you to see me as a man and treat me like any other cis- man.
Jan 19, 3:47 am
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I think this is a beautiful idea.
Originally posted by
nori
Edited: Star88; You and i may be in the same boat. Maybe this could help you two.
my girlfriend and i have made a new set of vocab to help her deal with dysphoria. It's words that make her feel more feminine, and still allow the two of us to ...
my girlfriend and i have made a new set of vocab to help her deal with dysphoria. It's words that make her feel more feminine, and still allow the two of us to ...
Edited: Star88; You and i may be in the same boat. Maybe this could help you two.
my girlfriend and i have made a new set of vocab to help her deal with dysphoria. It's words that make her feel more feminine, and still allow the two of us to talk sexually in our long distance relationship.
wet = hard/ anatomically excited
button = the tip of her
front = penis
entrance = her anus
I love calling attention to her hips, her ass, her collarbones, her tiny perky breasts. The parts of her anatomy that she likes (on a good day) And that seems to help with her dysphoria.
my girlfriend and i have made a new set of vocab to help her deal with dysphoria. It's words that make her feel more feminine, and still allow the two of us to talk sexually in our long distance relationship.
wet = hard/ anatomically excited
button = the tip of her
front = penis
entrance = her anus
I love calling attention to her hips, her ass, her collarbones, her tiny perky breasts. The parts of her anatomy that she likes (on a good day) And that seems to help with her dysphoria.
Feb 6, 12:47 pm
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Seconded. You sound like a great person, nori.
Originally posted by
Jensen
I think this is a beautiful idea.
I'm male-bodied and have trouble with the idea of topping or being on the receiving end of oral. I can't get aroused by the idea of these things. I don't notice how dysphoric I can be until attention is called onto one of these two things. I ... haven't thought of a solution yet, besides just stating a preference as bottom, or other more stereotypically "female" roles.
Feb 12, 6:31 pm
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i do the same with my ftm boyfriend, and it do help a lot!
Originally posted by
nori
Edited: Star88; You and i may be in the same boat. Maybe this could help you two.
my girlfriend and i have made a new set of vocab to help her deal with dysphoria. It's words that make her feel more feminine, and still allow the two of us to ...
my girlfriend and i have made a new set of vocab to help her deal with dysphoria. It's words that make her feel more feminine, and still allow the two of us to ...
Edited: Star88; You and i may be in the same boat. Maybe this could help you two.
my girlfriend and i have made a new set of vocab to help her deal with dysphoria. It's words that make her feel more feminine, and still allow the two of us to talk sexually in our long distance relationship.
wet = hard/ anatomically excited
button = the tip of her
front = penis
entrance = her anus
I love calling attention to her hips, her ass, her collarbones, her tiny perky breasts. The parts of her anatomy that she likes (on a good day) And that seems to help with her dysphoria.
my girlfriend and i have made a new set of vocab to help her deal with dysphoria. It's words that make her feel more feminine, and still allow the two of us to talk sexually in our long distance relationship.
wet = hard/ anatomically excited
button = the tip of her
front = penis
entrance = her anus
I love calling attention to her hips, her ass, her collarbones, her tiny perky breasts. The parts of her anatomy that she likes (on a good day) And that seems to help with her dysphoria.
Mar 6, 4:34 pm
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My girlfriend's MTF and I'm FTM. We've learned to play with language to make it better.
Originally posted by
nori
Edited: Star88; You and i may be in the same boat. Maybe this could help you two.
my girlfriend and i have made a new set of vocab to help her deal with dysphoria. It's words that make her feel more feminine, and still allow the two of us to ...
my girlfriend and i have made a new set of vocab to help her deal with dysphoria. It's words that make her feel more feminine, and still allow the two of us to ...
Edited: Star88; You and i may be in the same boat. Maybe this could help you two.
my girlfriend and i have made a new set of vocab to help her deal with dysphoria. It's words that make her feel more feminine, and still allow the two of us to talk sexually in our long distance relationship.
wet = hard/ anatomically excited
button = the tip of her
front = penis
entrance = her anus
I love calling attention to her hips, her ass, her collarbones, her tiny perky breasts. The parts of her anatomy that she likes (on a good day) And that seems to help with her dysphoria.
my girlfriend and i have made a new set of vocab to help her deal with dysphoria. It's words that make her feel more feminine, and still allow the two of us to talk sexually in our long distance relationship.
wet = hard/ anatomically excited
button = the tip of her
front = penis
entrance = her anus
I love calling attention to her hips, her ass, her collarbones, her tiny perky breasts. The parts of her anatomy that she likes (on a good day) And that seems to help with her dysphoria.
Wet=hard and vice versa
When we have penetrative sex (her penis, my vagina), we TALK about it like it's happening the other way around.
And we both love each others' butts.
Mar 6, 5:03 pm
I'm FTM and I find it incredibly awkward when in sexual situations. my dysphoria is the bane of my existence. alas. only really feel comfortable when talking and thinking about doing it with a fellow FTM friend of mine (which I think is somewhat normal). he feels the same way, too. his way of saying it is "it's because we're the same and understand each other's struggles" - which is true. when he and I talk sexually, I merely swap words with more genderless or male-y words, such as erection, front, crotch, entrance, abdomen, all those fun things.
Mar 8, 8:49 am
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I know what you mean. I hate not having a dick, and not being able to penetrate my partners. I don't mind bottoming, but the fact that it's terribly hard to reverse that hurts.
Originally posted by
thebest
My "difficulties" are more on a personal level not what other people think about it; that is, nine out of ten times I'm too uncomfortable with sex because of dysphoria about my body. Shit sucks.
Mar 17, 4:29 pm
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