Wow

*applauds*

Thank you Tobi. This article is amazing.

Let me third those kudos to Tobi. It just reinforces my belief that communication is the biggest key to the success of every relationship regardless of how the individuals identify themselves.

I am all for more trans-related articles. This one was a phenomenal addition to Sexis.

I also agree it took on the issue very well. I know that I am not alone in being (sometimes frustratingly) ignorant on the subject. For those of us who aren't, finding helpful information can prove to be quite difficult.

This was a good article!

I just read this and I'm all like, "Wow" too! Fantastic article and I'd love to see more like it!

That was wonderful and educating. It's a brilliant article and I echo Naughty Eliot and am a strong believer in communication being imperative to healthy relationships. Thank you for sharing.

I felt this article presented a lot of important information on a little-discussed topic with great intelligence and sensitivity. Thank you Tobi for the reminder that I too have a lot to learn.

Wow, glad to be so appreciated and welcomed into this space. I'll keep it up and be writing more articles that are hopefully just as appreciated. The one I'm working on right now is an interview with a feminist porn director.

Wow, glad to be so appreciated and welcomed into this space. I'll keep it up and be writing more articles that are hopefully just as appreciated. The one I'm working on right now is an interview with a feminist porn director.

Wonderful! This really reinforces that every relationship requires communication and care.

She words it a bit confusing, but it's an alright article. She seems as if she's saying that transwomen are only lesbians, since that's all that she includes in her verbage.

I was sure not to make a gendered reference to the reader or any other people trans women might potentially be hooking up with specifically to be inclusive of a wide range of genders that trans women might be sexual with. You might be noticing that I consistently used female pronouns for the hypothetical person the reader might be sexual with because in this context it is framed as advice for a reader of any gender on being sexual with trans women rather than advice directed at trans women.

Incidentally, I tossed in one or two anecdotes of my experience with cis women and genderqueers but could not think of any relevant anecdotes from my experience with men (trans or cis). But that's more of a reflection of my experience then a statement on other trans women.