I'm sorry. Please Read

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cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
I want to take a minute to apologize to the community for my actions in the WAY TO BIG FOR ME thread. Please read

I was sincerely hurt at first that no one understood where I was coming from. I felt like I should have had more support due the contributions I have made to the community (and I don't mean in a favoritism type of way).

But, after talking with Kristi and going on a short hiatus to think about things, I realized that the way I went about that thread in no way shape or form deserved backing up.

I have been going through some hard things in my personal life and unfortunately that was reflected in that thread. If any of you know me well enough, then you know that that was not like me what so ever.

Eden is a wonderful place that I have been proud to be a part of, and I don't want to do anything to jeopardize that. I was a little concerned at the whole issue I had brought up, but it is over now.

I want to thank you all for reading this, and hope that you know I am better than that.

Now go check out my Adopt A Family Adventure and see the type of person I really am!
12/18/2010
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
(Eden DIY)
Mighty big of you to come out like this, I don't think many would.

Honestly I was quite shocked at your comments and the way you dealt with it but I held my feelings to my self, something told me to let it go. And see, in the end it all works out.

To err is human. Shit happens, it's what you do after that defines us.
Big hugs
12/18/2010
cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
Thanks Tim, I really appreciate it
12/18/2010
Viktor Vysheslav Malkin Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
I am glad you came back

For a lot of people this time of the year brings out and takes it tool on people. The economy sucks, the job market sucks, add all that to the fact you got the major Holidays around this time... can get a cluster!@@$# time. Not saying this was your issue, and that is between you and yourself. I am just saying this is the most stressful time of year for many people. Leniency, forgiveness and forgetfulness for all involved is the perfect recipe.

What I am glad to see is, you didn't run away, never to be heard from again, you faced it.

I understand fully where you were coming from, and I am glad the issue is resolved.

It is a shame that you do not have time for the Porn Club, I really think that we are getting some good movies this month and you would do great reviewing them.

So I guess the only thing left for me to say is, I hope things turn around for you and your problems in your life are resolved to the best possible solution.
12/18/2010
ScottA ScottA
Welcome back. Give it some time and you'll settle into the EF groove and things will get easier (or you'll be like me and learn when to shut up).
12/18/2010
Darling Jen Darling Jen
(Birthday Club)
I'm glad I missed the drama, though it's weird that I did considering I feel like I live on the forum.

But I have to say that I am so proud of you, Cherry! It's so hard to make public apologies, no matter how old you get or how mature/responsible you are. I feel pretty high up the mature pole and still get terrified to apologize. And everyone, no matter their characteristics, makes mistakes. So you shouldn't be shamed because you're human and it was your turn to make one.

And I am so grateful to Eden for being understanding about this situation because you're one of the sweetest people I've talked to here and I'd definitely miss you if you left!
12/18/2010
cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
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Originally posted by Darling Jen
I'm glad I missed the drama, though it's weird that I did considering I feel like I live on the forum.

But I have to say that I am so proud of you, Cherry! It's so hard to make public apologies, no matter how old you get or how ... More
AWW XD Lol thank you guys for that. It is indeed hard to face up to what happened, because it was seriously just... dumb. I am extremely embarrassed over the whole thing and I am glad everyone is being forgiving.



@Viktor- Ugh don't remind me about the porn club I have a three week break between semesters but then I will be super busy again.
12/18/2010
Love Buzz Love Buzz
I think the fact that it was also very out of character for you to do something like that is what makes it easily forgivable (at least for me). I know I;ve already spoken up and said enough, but I just wanted to applaud you for having both the conviction and caring heart required to post this thread.
U r da bomb girl,da bomb!
12/18/2010
Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
(EdenFantasys)
Aww Cherry we love you. You should know it too! I understood where you were coming from, I just didn't agree with the execution of your argument. I definitely noticed the change in your attitude which is why I asked if you were PMSing, it just didn't seem like you. I hope you are doing and feeling better
12/19/2010
Porfiriato Porfiriato
No worries! Everyone will forget about it soon enough, and it is big of you to apologize like this. I'm sure everyone is ready to move on
12/19/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I try not to take these threads seriously. Remember reading the thread, thinking that it was an odd post - then just moving on - so I too missed the drama.

From I see of your general participation in the forum - I value your insights, but I don't even agree with my wife all the time - there are just times when you agree to disagree and move on.

I look forward to reading more of your posts on the forum.
12/19/2010
Illusional Illusional
<3 Cherrrrry. Welcome back!
12/19/2010
Emily! Emily!
Aww hun You are so awesome. It was soo hard for me to just zip it and not comment on the happenings of that thread. You are a wonderful person and I'm super duper happy to hear that you're staying. I was worried. I hope things will start to get better now. Stay strong homie xoxox
12/19/2010
Jobthingy Jobthingy
Well said hun. *hugs*
12/19/2010
Kisses and Kinks (aka Twisted Finger) Kisses and Kinks (aka Twisted Finger)
Glad you're doing better.
12/19/2010
Victoria Victoria
(Doc Johnson)
Much love, Cherry! Thank you for your caring post - please know that we DO want you here. I hope you have a wonderful Christmas and that things settle down so you can enjoy the good things!
12/20/2010
KristiS77 KristiS77
I'm glad your break was brief, Cherry. It's good to have you back.
12/20/2010
Jessica Elizabeth Jessica Elizabeth
I remember also wondering what was up with your posts.


Major kudos on stepping up and doing the right thing!
12/20/2010
SE SE
I didn't catch what happened. But good for you for making this post. We are all human, full of emotions, and not perfect.

whatever it was, don't be hard on yourself, just learn from it.
12/20/2010
Raggedy Andie Raggedy Andie
It's really big of you to make a public apology like this. That just shows that you really are a nice person. I understand about hard times and letting things get to you that you normally wouldn't even give a rat's arse about.
Good to see you back and way to be. *hugs*
12/20/2010
kendra30752 kendra30752
Aw I don't know anything about the thread which you were involved in, but I just wanted to say how admirable it is of you to publicly admit to doing something. I've seen you around here some and you do really seem to have a precious heart. I admire that!
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