External G-Spot Stimulation and Ejaculation

Dame Demi Dame Demi
I believe I read somewhere it's possible to stimulate the g-spot without penetration, but can't find the original source. I tend to find the most frequent times I ejaculate, penetration is NOT involved, just firm pressure on the clitoral area and below (like when I finally got the hang of the SaSi). Was just wondering if anyone else has experienced this, or am I just a freak?
12/14/2008
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Quote:
Originally posted by Dame Demi
I believe I read somewhere it's possible to stimulate the g-spot without penetration, but can't find the original source. I tend to find the most frequent times I ejaculate, penetration is NOT involved, just firm pressure on the clitoral ... More
Nope! I've ejaculated once or twice with no penetration. Usually, however, I DO need direct g-spot stimulation.
12/14/2008
Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady
I have ejaculated several times without internal stimulation as well. My "u-spot" is really sensitive and when it's rubbed (or licked) certain ways I have ejaculated. This will sound really loony, but I have actually ejaculated with NO stimulation to myself - just from being so aroused for so long and seeing how much I was pleasing my partner.

So no - you are not a freak!
12/14/2008
Dame Demi Dame Demi
Thanks, both of you. Like I said, I was fairly sure it was physically possible, but it still surprised the hell out of me! Glad I happened to use a towel...
12/15/2008
Liz2 Liz2
It has happened to me when highly aroused but I usually need g spot stimulation. At times I achieve indirect g spot stimulation via a butt plug in my ass and a vibe on my clit and some hot porn.
Now that I am usually prepared for a possible ejaculation with a towel or a throw it happens more often.
12/15/2008
Dame Demi Dame Demi
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Originally posted by Liz2
It has happened to me when highly aroused but I usually need g spot stimulation. At times I achieve indirect g spot stimulation via a butt plug in my ass and a vibe on my clit and some hot porn.
Now that I am usually prepared for a possible ... More
Haha, sounds like you go all out! Yeah, I think a towel definitely helps because it helps you relax more. I was just so surprised it happened without internal stimulation I think I was half afraid I wet myself!!!
12/17/2008
Liz2 Liz2
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Originally posted by Dame Demi
Haha, sounds like you go all out! Yeah, I think a towel definitely helps because it helps you relax more. I was just so surprised it happened without internal stimulation I think I was half afraid I wet myself!!!
Feels like that the first time but once I realized that I did not wet myself and the resulting warmth was from my ejaculate, I am more open to the experience and just go with the flow....pun intended.
12/18/2008
Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady
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Originally posted by Liz2
Feels like that the first time but once I realized that I did not wet myself and the resulting warmth was from my ejaculate, I am more open to the experience and just go with the flow....pun intended.
Yes... this is the first time in my life I can honestly say I ENJOY THE FLOW!!! LOL!!!!
12/19/2008
Dame Demi Dame Demi
Haha, you ladies are funny! It's true, though--it's an absolutely AMAZING feeling! Just glad I was using a water-resistant toy!!!
12/20/2008
Bulma Bulma
It wasn't all that long ago I started squirting (the 5th at 3:02 am to be exact...), and I still need lots of direct G-spot stimulation. I've heard that the G-spot can be stimulated externally (just above the pubic hump supposedly (from what I've read)) and I've also heard about the "u-spot" leading to ejaculation. I have noticed that the more I squirt the easier it becomes to relax and let it go...though I am not holding out to be able to squirt without touching myself (how I envy you ladies .
12/20/2008
Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady
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Originally posted by Bulma
It wasn't all that long ago I started squirting (the 5th at 3:02 am to be exact...), and I still need lots of direct G-spot stimulation. I've heard that the G-spot can be stimulated externally (just above the pubic hump supposedly (from what ... More
I can actually feel a gland swelling up when I'm going to ejaculate by pushing down and in just above my pubic hump. Then sometimes when I'm almost ready to squirt, if I push on that place it makes it come out faster and stronger.
12/20/2008
Dame Demi Dame Demi
You've all been so helpful, just wanted to say I really appreciate it! Thanks! Need to look into the U-spot more, definitely!
12/21/2008
Red Red
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Originally posted by Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady
I can actually feel a gland swelling up when I'm going to ejaculate by pushing down and in just above my pubic hump. Then sometimes when I'm almost ready to squirt, if I push on that place it makes it come out faster and stronger.
Yeah you can stimulate the gspot externally this way. Try finding the correct spot with a firm toy pressing on your gspot - I like massage on the area during sex

And as an echo in the chorous, ejaculation need not be tied to direct internal g-spot stimulation. There seems to be a *link* in the orgasmic response that will trigger it regardless of the activity going on. Specific to each individual of course! I had a g/f that *always* squirted when her clit was massaged.

In my anatomy, the so-called U-spot is pretty much right on the other side of my gspot, especially when it's swollen. So on me I would credit any squirting from stroking in the area to standard gspot play. (It does respond in a unique and magical way to very targeted, light, stroking)

great thread!
12/21/2008
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Yes, learn where your spot is by pushing down on the outside above your clit, in the pubic bone area, while applying pressure from the inside to your g-spot. Probe from both directions until you realize you are in the same spot on the outside.

I am surprised to here you say below the clitoral area though.
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