No. We never go by those traditions. We ate the frozen top from our wedding cake on our first anniversary. (The damn thing tasted like year old frozen wedding cake.) But, aside from that, we just get each other small gifts usually.
Our most recent anniversary (in January) he suggested we not get each other anything due to financial concerns (and we had just had Christmas, (the bills) my birthday is less than two weeks after our anniversary, then Valentines Day on and on) then he got me a present anyway. I felt bad, but he said he didn't want anything.
We screwed like bunnies the night before, that morning and the morning after, though. Then we went out to dinner at Ditkas.