Do you and your partner exchange gifts for Vday?

Do you and your partner exchange gifts for Vday?

 
 
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EnChAnTiNg EnChAnTiNg
After being married for a while, my husband and I no longer exchange gifts for Valentine's Day... How about you and your partner?
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We get each other gifts over $100
3  (6%)
We get each other gifts $50-$100
6  (12%)
We get each other gifts under $50
15  (31%)
We get each other Valentine's Day cards
4  (8%)
We do not get each other gifts
21  (43%)
Total votes: 49
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Jan 11, 2:59 pm
unfulfilled unfulfilled
We buy each other a box of chocolates. Last year he bought me a mug that had candy in it but he was getting it for hte mug b/c I drink green tea every day and he thought it would be nice to get me a new mug. I'm drinking out of it as we speak.
Jan 11, 3:18 pm
indiglo indiglo
I prefer to exchange gits any other day of the year besides birthdays and holidays. I just don't like the idea of being obligated to do it. So we don't, but we do gifts at other times just because we want to!
Jan 11, 3:39 pm
js250 js250
We get each other small, sexy just for us gifts. And then use them that night!!
Jan 11, 4:26 pm
aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by EnChAnTiNg
After being married for a while, my husband and I no longer exchange gifts for Valentine's Day... How about you and your partner?
Vday is important to me... i'm one of those gals who always tried to act like it wasn't, but deep down i wanted someone to think enough of me to treat me special that day. last year was pretty perfect. my boy got me roses, candy, and silly little rabbit, and we had a meal together on my front porch. i got him a $50 bottle of maker's mark, his favorite bourbon, in the largest bottle it's made in. it was a damn big bottle of maker's.
Jan 11, 5:26 pm
Coralbell Coralbell
This year will be our first real Valentines together. Our first date was a couple of days before Valentines last year. We haven't really planned it yet, but I did tell him that I'd rather just have a romantic night together than exchange gifts. I don't really see Valentine's as a gift giving day like Christmas and birthdays are. I'm thinking I'll cook us a nice dinner, than maybe we'll go skating on the pond. I just got some new massage oil that I know he will love, so I will probably save it til then and give him a massage. And I'll be wearing some new lingerie. So all of that will be his gift, but it's not like I'll have a wrapped present to hand him.
Jan 11, 5:59 pm
Remigirl Remigirl
My birthday is two days before Valentines day so we usually don't get each other anything anymore. We did at first or I would get him something and he would get me a joint present. This year we are going to Boston for a few nights as a birthday/vday trip which is something we have done in the past.
Jan 11, 6:05 pm
kendra30752 kendra30752
I'm a sucker for Valentines day. Even if it is just a way to scam the romantic's money! Lol. We usually exchange gifts or go out or something. Nothing extreme or real expensive, but just going out alone on V-day is special to me.
Jan 11, 6:23 pm
hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
I have never exchanged Valentines gifts with a partner. I prefer waiting a few days and having a fun night with discount candy.
Jan 11, 6:52 pm
Katelyn Katelyn
I always exchange gifts but I am a single gal this year so I will just pamper myself instead lol
Jan 11, 6:55 pm
Taylor Taylor
I've never really exchanged valentines gifts with partners. Usually I am too exhausted from work that I just want to sleep and I don't want to be romantic. Valentine's day is always the busiest day of the year for us at the day spa where I work
Jan 11, 6:56 pm
married with children married with children
It is different every year, depends on what we have going on.
Jan 13, 11:13 pm
darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I don't really care to exchange gifts. Getting flowers is nice, but I'd rather it be something he spontaneously did, not something he did because it's "expected of him." If we happen to go out for dinner or something, it will be unrelated to Valentine's Day.
Jan 15, 12:00 am
chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
i usually get him a gift thats about 50-60 but this year im spending almost 200 on him for a new gaming system i found on sale. he will love it
Jan 16, 10:21 am
geliebt geliebt
I'll usually do something nice or make something sweet for my partner <3 I may buy a gift this year, though, since I'm not 100% sure what I could do or make yet.
Jan 23, 1:03 am
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by EnChAnTiNg
After being married for a while, my husband and I no longer exchange gifts for Valentine's Day... How about you and your partner?
We have been married 32 years, and we would not think to NOT have gifts, cards, flowers, candy...etc. A flame burns hottest, when fuel is added to the fire, my friend.
Jan 29, 4:55 pm
Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
i get him gifts sometimes he gets me them
Jan 29, 5:57 pm
Allstars316 Allstars316
Me and my owner are just exchanging cards this year. My b-day is at the end of the month. But I guess I should spoil her. Off to look at things.
Jan 30, 9:34 am
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
"We" don't get gifts - I give her a gift each year. Sometimes flowers or chocolate - but almost always a new toy.
Jan 30, 11:05 am
freda freda
no we dont
Jan 30, 1:51 pm
lustfully lustfully
We either get each other things or make eachother things lol cards/perler hearts etc.etc.
Jan 30, 1:54 pm
Sam (aka Jul!a) Sam (aka Jul!a)
If one of us has bought the other something that we know they'd appreciate because we saw it and thought of them, and it happens to be around Valentine's Day, we'll wait and give it to each other then. Last year I got my husband a Fleshlight with points and gift cards, and this year I got him a CD of an artist I know he likes.
Jan 30, 2:00 pm
SouthParkFan SouthParkFan
Normally my husband doesn't like the idea of having to give gifts on Valentine's Day. This year however he did get me an expensive set of Knitting Needles that I have had my eye on for over a year and some other knitting supplies as well. I plan on making making him a knitted cap, fingerless gloves (he has been wanting me to knit him) and a pair of socks.
Jan 31, 9:26 am
Gracie Gracie
I bought a big thing, and some little things. I discussed the big thing, but he will get a small surprise or two. I know my big thing from him and I dont know if I will get a surprise.
Jan 31, 10:53 pm
calliope calliope
Depends how much money we have that year!
Feb 4, 1:34 am
guard083 guard083
We say our limit is going to be $50 but we usually some how go over it
Feb 8, 5:54 pm
BlooJay BlooJay
I usually get her flowers, but this year I'm thinking that I'll get her a toy or two. We've been dating for years, but I need to switch it up and get her something different from past years.
Feb 9, 1:17 am
Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by EnChAnTiNg
After being married for a while, my husband and I no longer exchange gifts for Valentine's Day... How about you and your partner?
something small and inexpensive
Feb 9, 1:48 am
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(Eden Lit)
Quote:
Originally posted by EnChAnTiNg
After being married for a while, my husband and I no longer exchange gifts for Valentine's Day... How about you and your partner?
I usually get flowers from both guys and Sigel always buys a lovely couple of flowers for each of our girls. Arch normally buys the Monkey a stuffed animal or chocolate heart.
Feb 9, 2:08 am
Puss in Boots Puss in Boots
I've never had anyone give me a valentines gift, including serious boyfriends. Just hanging out is nice. Oh, we did order a heart-shaped pizza once though, haha.
Feb 10, 8:42 pm
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Unique posters: 30