Since my separation/divorce, any guy in my life at that time tends to drop out of existence around the week of it. I'm insulted, as I never indicated that I expect anything from them. It's their own passive-aggressive childish reaction to it.
My ex-husband would make a less-greasy-than-norma l meal. Um, yay? Then he'd find an excuse to keep the marriage especially-celibate on that night.