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Do you do anything special for holidays with your sweetie? Do you expect or anticipate sex during the holiday season? Is this helped or not helped by gifts?
Seems like this was already discussed recently...
Anyways, it depends. We have sex around the Holidays, but we don't really make sure we have sex right on Holidays. Usually we're spending time with family & having parties, so we don't always. As for sex as a gift, I don't like that idea. It feels like a really cheap way out of actually doing something different for your partner. Like I said before on this topic, sex can happen any time, for holidays, sex is great, but something else special is nice too. I just don't think sex on a holiday is that big of a deal. Nice if it happens, but not something I strive for.
So no, our sex really doesn't change anything about the holidays and sex does not influence how or if we get real gifts for each other. And if by "is this helped or not helped by gifts," you mean do gifts influence whether or not we put out, then hell no. I'm not going to give someone sex because they bought me something and I'm not giving sex in hopes of getting something in return. That would be immature and a little strange.