Hi,
This is my first post and probably in the wrong forum.
I am a male with a female FWB and probably even more from an emotional and spiritual connection perspective. Our situations are evolving, but the sex and anxiety are extremely high. We have for the last 6 months has been in overnight hotel stays - exquisite hotel stays in NY/NJ.
During our last rendezvous in December I prepared some sexual innuendo, which leads me to the following question:
What ideas can this Eden Community offer for high-powered sexual romantic queues when she arrives and enters our hotel suite? I/We are not at the point of a lame flower or petals leading to a bath or some box of chocolates. We're both married and on path to separation/divorce. I am asking and begging for ideas of naughty.
What I have done during our last encounter, which was received very well was the following:
- Custom-made coupons with erotic photos and headline of the activity that showed an expiration date if not used. I do graphics so she was pleasantly surprised by the quality as well as fantasy's I wanted (e.g. erotic poses and positions, bondage, etc). She redeemed two
- Wrote a nasty dominant message using a bar of soap on the bathroom mirror. She nearly came from this innovative idea when she saw it as it was her first.
- I left a night table slightly ajar with the toys I accrued. Specifically, I had a new realistic dildo of substantial girth and size at the top so she "could" find it while I was in the bathroom. Well received and we used it that night.
- In similar vane to the latter, I left toy cleaning spray on the bathroom vanity.
What other ideas can you offer that are more sexual? We are in love, but a "new" second love. We have seen the original tactics used before as we're both married and in our 40's.
Thanks in advance!
This is my first post and probably in the wrong forum.
I am a male with a female FWB and probably even more from an emotional and spiritual connection perspective. Our situations are evolving, but the sex and anxiety are extremely high. We have for the last 6 months has been in overnight hotel stays - exquisite hotel stays in NY/NJ.
During our last rendezvous in December I prepared some sexual innuendo, which leads me to the following question:
What ideas can this Eden Community offer for high-powered sexual romantic queues when she arrives and enters our hotel suite? I/We are not at the point of a lame flower or petals leading to a bath or some box of chocolates. We're both married and on path to separation/divorce. I am asking and begging for ideas of naughty.
What I have done during our last encounter, which was received very well was the following:
- Custom-made coupons with erotic photos and headline of the activity that showed an expiration date if not used. I do graphics so she was pleasantly surprised by the quality as well as fantasy's I wanted (e.g. erotic poses and positions, bondage, etc). She redeemed two
- Wrote a nasty dominant message using a bar of soap on the bathroom mirror. She nearly came from this innovative idea when she saw it as it was her first.
- I left a night table slightly ajar with the toys I accrued. Specifically, I had a new realistic dildo of substantial girth and size at the top so she "could" find it while I was in the bathroom. Well received and we used it that night.
- In similar vane to the latter, I left toy cleaning spray on the bathroom vanity.
What other ideas can you offer that are more sexual? We are in love, but a "new" second love. We have seen the original tactics used before as we're both married and in our 40's.
Thanks in advance!
