Need ideas for hotel visitor

Smellsogood Smellsogood
Hi,

This is my first post and probably in the wrong forum.

I am a male with a female FWB and probably even more from an emotional and spiritual connection perspective. Our situations are evolving, but the sex and anxiety are extremely high. We have for the last 6 months has been in overnight hotel stays - exquisite hotel stays in NY/NJ.

During our last rendezvous in December I prepared some sexual innuendo, which leads me to the following question:

What ideas can this Eden Community offer for high-powered sexual romantic queues when she arrives and enters our hotel suite? I/We are not at the point of a lame flower or petals leading to a bath or some box of chocolates. We're both married and on path to separation/divorce. I am asking and begging for ideas of naughty.

What I have done during our last encounter, which was received very well was the following:

- Custom-made coupons with erotic photos and headline of the activity that showed an expiration date if not used. I do graphics so she was pleasantly surprised by the quality as well as fantasy's I wanted (e.g. erotic poses and positions, bondage, etc). She redeemed two

- Wrote a nasty dominant message using a bar of soap on the bathroom mirror. She nearly came from this innovative idea when she saw it as it was her first.

- I left a night table slightly ajar with the toys I accrued. Specifically, I had a new realistic dildo of substantial girth and size at the top so she "could" find it while I was in the bathroom. Well received and we used it that night.

- In similar vane to the latter, I left toy cleaning spray on the bathroom vanity.


What other ideas can you offer that are more sexual? We are in love, but a "new" second love. We have seen the original tactics used before as we're both married and in our 40's.

Thanks in advance!
01/15/2013
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Jennifer87 Jennifer87
I would suggest like the rose petals and stuff, there is a set here on eden And they sell games which might be interesting
01/15/2013
indiglo indiglo
I really like some of the ideas you've already done!

Here are a few more, don't know if they'll work for you, but they popped into my head.

- Get her a set of lingerie (maybe cupless or crotchless?) and lay that out with a note of very specific instructions on what to do and how to do it.

- Lay out some BDSM toys (maybe wrist/ankle cuffs, floggers, paddles, etc.) if you 2 are into that. (Similar to what you did with the dildo & other toys earlier.)

- Why not use condoms instead of rose petals to lead her to the bed, or the shower, or wherever you want her.

- Maybe a set of edible body paints on the bathroom counter or the night stand.

- Draw a bubble bath in the tub (especially if they have a tub with jets in it) and leave her a note with instructions to strip (and do whatever else you have in mind) and then get in the tub - maybe you'll already be waiting there?


Hey, maybe I'll use some of these with my man! lol
01/15/2013
kadelette kadelette
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Originally posted by indiglo
I really like some of the ideas you've already done!

Here are a few more, don't know if they'll work for you, but they popped into my head.

- Get her a set of lingerie (maybe cupless or crotchless?) and lay that out with a ... More
Those are all awesome ideas! Hopefully Smellsogood finds a few he likes.
01/15/2013
Smellsogood Smellsogood
Quote:
Originally posted by Jennifer87
I would suggest like the rose petals and stuff, there is a set here on eden And they sell games which might be interesting
Thanks for the idea, but as I said we "lived" through this already with others. Maybe I can lead her to an Eden product gently stuffed inside a pillow or a chair. The chair would symbolize sitting down with a note taped to it of her obedience required. Then I use some newbie handcuffs and blind fold.

Your idea stimulated some ideas of old vs. new erotic ideas

Thanks!
01/15/2013
Smellsogood Smellsogood
Quote:
Originally posted by indiglo
I really like some of the ideas you've already done!

Here are a few more, don't know if they'll work for you, but they popped into my head.

- Get her a set of lingerie (maybe cupless or crotchless?) and lay that out with a ... More
- Get her a set of lingerie (maybe cupless or crotchless?) and lay that out with a note of very specific instructions on what to do and how to do it.
Answers to your answers

- Lay out some BDSM toys (maybe wrist/ankle cuffs, floggers, paddles, etc.) if you 2 are into that. (Similar to what you did with the dildo & other toys earlier.)

I recently had a restraint system that I never opened that goes under the mattress (popular product) and left it out in the open. We will definitely use that this Saturday as I prep the bed. Done

- Why not use condoms instead of rose petals to lead her to the bed, or the shower, or wherever you want her.

Crown condoms!!! I have a box of 48 or whatever. They are the thinnest and used by porn stars. We only use condoms for anal, so it will need to lead to the shower. Unfortunately, she initiates the shower session and I follow knowing what's next.

Another idea is to inflate a condom and use it as a Liberator pillow/furniture. I'm not a balloon fetish guy, but it's the cheapest prop for raising the hips or supporting the lower back if you know what I mean Yum!!!

- Maybe a set of edible body paints on the bathroom counter or the night stand.

YES!!! But I need to first burn the high-temp candles over my tummy. I'm into hot wax since I was 14 at camp. The kamasutra candles I bought are low-heat and are lame for my needs.

As for edible, she played with the old gag whipped cream. That's so 90's. I'm going for honey now Great idea Indigo!

- Draw a bubble bath in the tub (especially if they have a tub with jets in it) and leave her a note with instructions to strip (and do whatever else you have in mind) and then get in the tub - maybe you'll already be waiting there?

Only problem with bubble bath is knowing the right volume of water for displacement as we both enter; so my incidental charges with the resort remain $0. I don't want to flood the floor beneath us.
01/15/2013
Smellsogood Smellsogood
Quote:
Originally posted by Smellsogood
Hi,

This is my first post and probably in the wrong forum.

I am a male with a female FWB and probably even more from an emotional and spiritual connection perspective. Our situations are evolving, but the sex and anxiety are extremely ... More
Another idea I just thought of is:

1) Grab bag where she picks a fortune type cookie paper with her prize for the evening

2) Truth or dare

3) Breadcrumb game. Similar to what we played in swimming pools of "Marco...POLO!" In this game I place flash card clues of where to go next and what to do. First card could state "Turn to your lover or fuck buddy and smile. Turn on lamp. As she turns on the lamp a new card is revealed under the lamp shade. New instructions where to go next and that new card could state to bend over and touch ankles *wiggle* and wait 45 seconds. You get the idea Eventually, her goal (you can state this in the beginning on the first flash card) is to reach your lover. The finale is whatever you want to make of the game as you wait for her to come back to the couch or bed for you. AWESOME!!! The Breadcrumb Game Erotica by SmellsoGood.

I'm going to do this!!!! Sorry, but I feel like sheer genius tonight.
01/15/2013
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