Is it ok to ask someone to be your quote-on-quote "Valentine" if you've been dating for 4 months?

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Is it ok to ask someone to be your quote-on-quote "Valentine" if you've been dating for 4 months?

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Contributor: OrangeKushBB OrangeKushBB
I met this guy in one of my college classes, and we've become really close. We spend at least 3 nights a week together and talk daily. I asked him to be my valentine, which sounds ridiculous, but I've never really had a valentine before....anyways, he said yes, but I want to know - do you guys think it's too soon? I recently got out of a 3 year relationship and it's the first guy I've really fallen for.
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Go for it, enjoy the honeymoon phase :)
eeep , Ryuson , NicNat , Rossie , wrmbreze , kawigrl , HannahPanda , voenne , Lily Night , Ansley , Lover of Leather , FemmeFlo , Ms. Spice , Gracie , BobbiJay , Ice1 , Ghost , Errant Venture , slynch , darthkitt3n , Adriana Ravenlust , unfulfilled , lacybutton , mpfm , KyotoAngel , kz916 , dhig , dv8 , toxie m , freda , lustfully
31  (86%)
Take it slow and see where things go
PassionateLover2
1  (3%)
It's v-day....who really cares?
EnterTheFist , GonetoLovehoney , Katelyn , Beck
4  (11%)
Total votes: 36
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01/27/2012
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Contributor: EnterTheFist EnterTheFist
Quote:
Originally posted by OrangeKushBB
I met this guy in one of my college classes, and we've become really close. We spend at least 3 nights a week together and talk daily. I asked him to be my valentine, which sounds ridiculous, but I've never really had a valentine ... more
If you guys have been dating for 4 months...do you really need to ask to be Valentines? I mean, I can see asking someone to be your Valentine if you guys were just friends or whatever, but you guys seem to be past that point already. Go out and have fun!
01/27/2012
Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
this is though. i would do what you think is best.
01/27/2012
Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
also they say the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. if your still feeling things w your old partner than take some time
01/27/2012
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
Go for it, love!
01/27/2012
Contributor: voenne voenne
That's definitely not too soon to ask. I mean, it's just a fun holiday. Go out, have fun, enjoy eachother's company. It doesn't have to be a serious thing.
01/27/2012
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
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Originally posted by voenne
That's definitely not too soon to ask. I mean, it's just a fun holiday. Go out, have fun, enjoy eachother's company. It doesn't have to be a serious thing.
I agree here. Taking it to the next level, however, is one of patience that will grow stronger over time only if it's meant to be! Good luck!
01/27/2012
Contributor: FemmeFlo FemmeFlo
Have fun with it! Asking someone to be your valentine isn't a serious thing.

It's fun to go all-out for Valentine's day.
01/27/2012
Contributor: Katelyn Katelyn
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Originally posted by FemmeFlo
Have fun with it! Asking someone to be your valentine isn't a serious thing.

It's fun to go all-out for Valentine's day.
So true, it sounds like fun!
01/27/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
Just seems childish to ask someone to be your Valentine, so just ask if he wants to hang out.
01/27/2012
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
I don't think it's too soon at all. Good luck and have fun . And don't do anything I wouldn't do! (Don't worry, there's very little I wouldn't do!)
01/28/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
Go out and have fun!
01/28/2012
Contributor: KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
Quote:
Originally posted by OrangeKushBB
I met this guy in one of my college classes, and we've become really close. We spend at least 3 nights a week together and talk daily. I asked him to be my valentine, which sounds ridiculous, but I've never really had a valentine ... more
If you're still happy with him and it's been a 4 month relationship then it's more than likely not just a 'rebound' thing so go on and ask him.
Hell, after about our fourth real conversation I made my intentions well known to my current boyfriend (outright said I wanted to be his girlfriend actually...never been that bold in my entire life <_<; ) and we're still together after about two years. x'D
01/28/2012
Contributor: kz916 kz916
go for it and enjoy.
01/28/2012
Contributor: dhig dhig
honeymoon phase FTW
01/28/2012
Contributor: freda freda
go for it
01/30/2012