Sooooo, do you have something special coming up in the new year?

Edeneve Edeneve
sooooo, do you have something special coming up in the new year? I'm really jazzed - I'm finally getting a new bed...YAY!!!...sleepin g bliss.
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Ansley Ansley
Congrats on the new bed! I'd love to have a new top mattress. Most beds don't come with box springs anymore and I find that to be sad. So I'd just replace the top mattress...but anyway, as far as I know, no surprises in the horizon.
Jan 1, 12:56 pm
Edeneve Edeneve
ooohhh, I just decided to get a new couch too! yippee!!! then I can fall asleep in front to the TV. lol yes, I have kept my bedroom free of the distraction of a TV.
Jan 2, 2:18 pm
wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
New furniture! Awesome! That's definitely something I'd be excited about.

Uhm, I suppose as for me, I'm hoping that the fiance and I will be able to move to a bigger city where opportunities will be more abundant. We are actively working towards it now.
Jan 2, 5:36 pm
smalltalkingbit smalltalkingbit
I bought my first toy- ha! I'm watching the tracking number like a hawk. My partner and I have been adventurous in other ways, but this is the first time an actual toy is entering the picture. I'm excited!

Other than that, I'll be halfway done with my masters after spring semester comes to a close. Working full time (and then some) means it's slow going, but it feels great to approach the halfway mark.

Good luck moving to a bigger city!
Jan 2, 6:47 pm
wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
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Originally posted by smalltalkingbit
I bought my first toy- ha! I'm watching the tracking number like a hawk. My partner and I have been adventurous in other ways, but this is the first time an actual toy is entering the picture. I'm excited!

Other than that, I'll ... More
Congrats on your first toy! It'll be a fun experience for you!
Jan 2, 10:19 pm
Edeneve Edeneve
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Originally posted by smalltalkingbit
I bought my first toy- ha! I'm watching the tracking number like a hawk. My partner and I have been adventurous in other ways, but this is the first time an actual toy is entering the picture. I'm excited!

Other than that, I'll ... More
I remember getting my first toy. it was great fun. enjoy it.
Jan 3, 9:30 am
Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by smalltalkingbit
I bought my first toy- ha! I'm watching the tracking number like a hawk. My partner and I have been adventurous in other ways, but this is the first time an actual toy is entering the picture. I'm excited!

Other than that, I'll ... More
Which toy did you pick?
Jan 3, 10:01 am
smalltalkingbit smalltalkingbit
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Originally posted by Ansley
Which toy did you pick?
I purchased a Hitachi magic wand ("Original Magic Wand" these days, apparently) and an attachment for it. My older sister and close confidant swears by hers. I thought about getting a different type of wand to see if different patterns etc. work well for me, but bought based on the reviews I'd seen and how the preferences of those reviewers matched up with my own. In a perfect world, it will be a great match for me-- and if it isn't, I'll research something different. It should be arriving just in time for some nasty winter weather that will leave most of the area indoors. Convenient!

Thanks for the congrats!! It's exciting.. and oddly, it seemed like I needed to get to a certain level of self-confidence to feel comfortable buying a toy. If it weren't 3am here, I'd have a better way of phrasing that.
Jan 5, 4:09 am
Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by smalltalkingbit
I purchased a Hitachi magic wand ("Original Magic Wand" these days, apparently) and an attachment for it. My older sister and close confidant swears by hers. I thought about getting a different type of wand to see if different patterns ... More
Awww! I totally understand what you mean about the level of confidence needed. I was really, really shy about toys when I first learned about them but now I'm a proverbial monster (and toy snob). I hope you like it. I'm terrified of the Hitachi. It's way too intense for me but I have a very sensitive stomach, so jarring vibrations or movement can set me off. Hell, I gag if I get a deep lung of cold air. Most people swear by the Hitachi, though. Let us know how it works for you!
Jan 6, 12:56 pm
smalltalkingbit smalltalkingbit
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Originally posted by Ansley
Awww! I totally understand what you mean about the level of confidence needed. I was really, really shy about toys when I first learned about them but now I'm a proverbial monster (and toy snob). I hope you like it. I'm terrified of the ... More
I will! I hope it works out... seeing as I have no idea what I'll do with it if it doesn't!

Building confidence in living in my own skin, and feeling comfortable exploring it, has been a pretty life-altering experience. I'm no where near done yet, of course, but we're never totally done anyway.
Jan 6, 8:50 pm
Edeneve Edeneve
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Originally posted by smalltalkingbit
I will! I hope it works out... seeing as I have no idea what I'll do with it if it doesn't!

Building confidence in living in my own skin, and feeling comfortable exploring it, has been a pretty life-altering experience. I'm no ... More
I've read many reviews about the Hitachi & lots of people love it. from what I understand, it's very strong. if it's too intense for you, you can always use it for sore muscles.

I've been on a life long journey exploring my body - yes, we are never totally done. I'm in my 50's & still discovering more. it's been a fun journey for the most part.
Jan 7, 10:57 am
wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
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Originally posted by Edeneve
I've read many reviews about the Hitachi & lots of people love it. from what I understand, it's very strong. if it's too intense for you, you can always use it for sore muscles.

I've been on a life long journey exploring ... More
And what's funny is you can find a "massager" at Walgreens that looks exactly like the Hitachi wands, haha.
Jan 7, 6:48 pm
smalltalkingbit smalltalkingbit
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Originally posted by wrecklesswords
And what's funny is you can find a "massager" at Walgreens that looks exactly like the Hitachi wands, haha.
Trial 1 of the Hitachi (without attachment for the first time): I'll be honest- I was nervous to use it. I was with my partner and he used it for its intended purpose to help ease my nerves. Initially, there was a jokey vibe in the room since it was something new to both of us. I used it on the lower of the two settings with lubricant, which was helpful. I kept getting really close with it, changed around my own position (so I was flat on my stomach), and with both Hitachi and partner going simultaneously was done twice in the span of a minute and a half. It's funny because I used to be a clitoral-stimulation-o nly person, but that's changed in the last year. I couldn't quite get there with that alone tonight. I'll continue exploring what works for me (on my own, as well as with him) now that I've given it a go.

Sidenote: once done, I then obsessively googled best cleaning practices for the wand. Glad there are lots of folks out there with feedback and advice!
Jan 8, 12:07 am
Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by smalltalkingbit
Trial 1 of the Hitachi (without attachment for the first time): I'll be honest- I was nervous to use it. I was with my partner and he used it for its intended purpose to help ease my nerves. Initially, there was a jokey vibe in the room since ... More
Sounds like you had a great time! Keep trying different things. Liberator makes some sex furniture that can help you keep teh wand still while being penetrated at the same time. I'd offer my bonbon up for sale to you, but I use it as a foot rest.
Jan 8, 1:07 pm
Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by smalltalkingbit
I will! I hope it works out... seeing as I have no idea what I'll do with it if it doesn't!

Building confidence in living in my own skin, and feeling comfortable exploring it, has been a pretty life-altering experience. I'm no ... More
Nope. We are never totally done and there are still going to be days when you don't feel like you're all that awesome or wonderful, but those pass. We all need to give ourselves permission to be awesome no matter what others think.
Jan 8, 1:08 pm
smalltalkingbit smalltalkingbit
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Originally posted by Ansley
Sounds like you had a great time! Keep trying different things. Liberator makes some sex furniture that can help you keep teh wand still while being penetrated at the same time. I'd offer my bonbon up for sale to you, but I use it as a foot ... More
I know sex furniture typically looks totally innocent, but the idea of using it as a foot rest still made me chuckle.

I'll look into sex furniture! It seems like a natural progression, given my experience with Hitachi so far (and more generally, my partner's and my own desire to try new things).

YES we've gotta give ourselves permission to be awesome! The discovery in the last few years that what kind of person I am doesn't change depending on what kind of person someone thinks I am-- liberating. Along with the more work-related realization that things will get done eventually, regardless of how stressed I do or don't make myself. Cheers for self-reflection!
Jan 9, 12:07 am
AtlDom85 AtlDom85
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Originally posted by Edeneve
sooooo, do you have something special coming up in the new year? I'm really jazzed - I'm finally getting a new bed...YAY!!!...sleepin g bliss.
Lots of new sex toys
Feb 20, 3:00 pm
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