Have your feelings, views, likes and dislikes about sex remained consistent over the years or have you evolved?

Martiniman Martiniman
Have your feelings, views, likes and dislikes about sex remained consistent over the years or have you evolved, becoming more interested in different sex acts, fetishes or kinks?
04/18/2013
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GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
For me it's definitely evolved. Some of it was related to sexual orientation but I was relatively young when I came out and it continued evolving after that too. I became more comfortable with my sexually in general as I got older and as that happened I also became more open to new and different things. I think a big part of it was that as a female my drive increased with age and it had to do with wanting sex more and my ability to enjoy it more. Once I could experience multiple orgasms, that changed everything!
04/18/2013
Hummingbird Hummingbird
Definitely evolved and am more than willing to try new positions, toys, textures and sensations and loving every minute of it.

I agree with GirlOnGirl, age does have a factor but my whole outlook now that I'm older and really appreciating the benefits of the pleasure I feel helps my over-all health and well being. GirlOnGil talks about having multiples, I had my first Screaming O a couple months ago and then learned about all the different erotic spots a woman has, oh yeah... pleasure big time!

Also being older I've learned to also be open to new sensations and experiences.
04/18/2013
Trysexual Trysexual
Evolved.
04/18/2013
KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
Definitely evolved and my interests have expanded. A lot of that has to do with my boyfriend. My family is very conservative and my boyfriend has opened me up to many different experiences.
04/18/2013
gsfanatic gsfanatic
I've grown a lot and gotten more comfortable trying a lot of new things.
04/18/2013
rosythorn rosythorn
Totally! I thought sex was totally gross at 12, I mean come on think about it! But of course now I don:t mind it. =)
04/18/2013
Sammi Sammi
They've changed. There are some things I'm into now that I used to hate, and other things I realized I really didn't care for. There's something to be said for experimenting
04/18/2013
married with children married with children
yes, we have evolved with age. but my views on marriage have not changed. Sex has grown and expanded over the years.
04/18/2013
twelve13 twelve13
My sexuality became more fluid. O,r perhaps, I just became more comfortable with my sexuality.
04/19/2013
FieryRed FieryRed
My thoughts and feelings toward sex have gone through multiple changes! I was raised as a Mormon (celibacy until marriage), then became a sexually-active atheist, then realized I was a lesbian... I tried almost everything that doesn't involve serious pain/breaking the skin during a certain period of my life. Now, I actually am more conservative in my sexual practices, as I've learned what I like and don't like, and am much more firm about my boundaries. This doesn't mean I don't like to experiment within those boundaries, though.
04/24/2013
sunflower sunflower
I've certainly evolved over time. I think I'm still evolving and in 1 year I may feel totally different about sexuality and kinks than I feel now. I'm into some things now that I previously thought were gross, maybe in the future I'll be into more things. I guess it's like learning more about the world combined with a lot of learning about myself? And having different experiences in the world that continue to shape my opinions. Idk.
04/24/2013
butts butts
Since I was a teen, my sexuality, views, likes and dislikes have changed SO much. Experience really changes your view of things!
04/24/2013
LoveBug721 LoveBug721
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Have your feelings, views, likes and dislikes about sex remained consistent over the years or have you evolved, becoming more interested in different sex acts, fetishes or kinks?
A little progress.
04/25/2013
Bill220 Bill220
As I've gotten older I find that I my desire to try new things has increased. I still have personal limits, however. If it interests me and falls within the bounds of my marriage vows, I'll try it. I used to feel guilty and ashamed but no more.
04/25/2013
bog bog
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Have your feelings, views, likes and dislikes about sex remained consistent over the years or have you evolved, becoming more interested in different sex acts, fetishes or kinks?
I'm constantly evolving, and discovering new things I like.
04/25/2013
XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
The older I get, the more I'm willing to try new things out.
04/26/2013
wicked48 wicked48
Definitely have evolved. I also find that the older I get, the more willing I am to try new things.
04/26/2013
Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
Evolved.
04/27/2013
Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
Evolved, and still evolving.
04/29/2013
Hentialover Hentialover
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Have your feelings, views, likes and dislikes about sex remained consistent over the years or have you evolved, becoming more interested in different sex acts, fetishes or kinks?
My views on sex change all msot every month. It seems like as soon as I learn about one thing, there is another one right after it! It's a never ending cycle of learning, and I greatly enjoy it. Sex is such an interestingly advanced process, and I think the more you learn the more you evolve.
04/29/2013
Castielskitten Castielskitten
Evolved. Once you start learning of new things you really can't stop it.
04/29/2013
TheirPet TheirPet
I feel as though I've evolved over time. I think it's normal for a person to change.
04/29/2013
Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
It has evolved a lot since I left my ex who was verbally abusive and not very interested in sex. Since leaving him, my self-esteem improved. When you feel better about yourself and do not hate to go home, you can focus on exploring yourself. It also helped that I am now with a wonderful man who I am very in love and lust with. We have a relationship where we do not judge each other and can be open and honest about our wants and fantasies.
05/01/2013
Love Bites Love Bites
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Have your feelings, views, likes and dislikes about sex remained consistent over the years or have you evolved, becoming more interested in different sex acts, fetishes or kinks?
Well I don't have a lot of experience, but my interests have evolved. I've become more interested in trying new things, new kinks and fetishes.
05/02/2013
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
They have greatly evolved...I like more and more kinkier things as I get older.
05/02/2013
Stagger13 Stagger13
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Have your feelings, views, likes and dislikes about sex remained consistent over the years or have you evolved, becoming more interested in different sex acts, fetishes or kinks?
Evolved...especially since we discovered EF.
05/02/2013
mpfm mpfm
Definitely evolved and still evolving.
05/02/2013
kadelette kadelette
Evolved! I just keep getting more and more open to things.
05/02/2013
Sangsara Sangsara
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Have your feelings, views, likes and dislikes about sex remained consistent over the years or have you evolved, becoming more interested in different sex acts, fetishes or kinks?
evolved- definitely evolved. I think this comes with learning what I really need to be sexually satisfied. I had the emotional part down in high school but the physical part took way way longer. Once I learned to appreciate sex more on purely a physical level, my emotions stopped ruling my sex life and I stopped being so needy. I guess basically I transferred those 'needs' that I thought I had back to where they belonged and became much more self sufficient.
I still think of the idea of 'making love' as opposed to just straight out sex or down and dirty fucking as the most special thing in the world but it isn't a goal that I have with every sex partner which I think is leaving me a lot more satisfied and a heck of a lot happier. Also I'm a little more selfish a lover than I used to be, but I think that it balances out with better technical skills these days anyway.
05/05/2013
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