Have you ever been to a sex/orgy/swingers party?

Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
I've never been to one.
10/11/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by FantasyFanatic
As the title says, have you ever been to a party where the whole purpose is to have sex with people? I'm talking about the kind you see in ridiculous porn, where at least one couple is having sex in every room of the house, group sex ranging from ... more
Mr. Bignuf says "YES". I had a girlfriend take me to one, with RICH, PROFESSIONAL people there, all having sex in a mansion...like in a movie. Lot's of Mercedes, BMW's, booze, drugs and jewels. Sex going on everywhere. However, HE was too young to jump in...and just freaked out when he entered the scene. He ended up NOT participating at all, and the "date" who took him got very annoyed with him for it (and never saw him again).
10/11/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
Never been.
10/11/2012
Contributor: Gluesnffr Gluesnffr
no and i dont want to
10/11/2012
Contributor: bunny love bunny love
I've been to a local dungeon. It wasn't filled to the brim with people having sex. There were people doing a lot of different things throughout the space of the event. For example, rope suspension bondage, whippings, violet wand play with restraint elements, and much more.
10/11/2012
Contributor: MzGreenEyedLady MzGreenEyedLady
Never been to one.
10/11/2012
Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
no but I'd love to try it at least once
10/11/2012
Contributor: skeeterlynn skeeterlynn
Nope
10/11/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Bignuf
Mr. Bignuf says "YES". I had a girlfriend take me to one, with RICH, PROFESSIONAL people there, all having sex in a mansion...like in a movie. Lot's of Mercedes, BMW's, booze, drugs and jewels. Sex going on everywhere. However, HE ... more
All's well that ends well!
10/11/2012
Contributor: Katdid Katdid
Dont ever want to go to one
10/11/2012
Contributor: ejrbrndps ejrbrndps
no and never will
10/11/2012
Contributor: marshmallow marshmallow
nope
10/12/2012
Contributor: Alyxx Alyxx
Not exactly. I've been to a party that almost turned into one, but that quickly turned into a disaster. Let's just say my ex's birthday party devolved into a small orgy that he was not a part of. But given the chance I would like to go to a "real" one. I have friends who have gone to a few, and if my boy and I visit them we've been told of a nifty nearby swinger's club/bar.
10/12/2012
Contributor: G&L G&L
Nope and not interested.
10/12/2012
Contributor: FantasyFanatic FantasyFanatic
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Originally posted by Trysexual
Yes...prob should be anonymous voting.
You post "Yes" in the comments for everyone to see, so I'm not sure what good it would do if voting was anonymous
Besides, I would think that most people that have been to one would be open enough to admit that they have on a silly poll on the internet.
10/13/2012
Contributor: MidnightStorm MidnightStorm
I never have, but I'm kind of curious. I'm more interested in an orgy than a swingers party, though.
10/13/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by FantasyFanatic
As the title says, have you ever been to a party where the whole purpose is to have sex with people? I'm talking about the kind you see in ridiculous porn, where at least one couple is having sex in every room of the house, group sex ranging from ... more
Yes, I have been to a few parties where sex was on the menu and the only intoxicating substances were the people there for some and for others there was alcohol. By far the most popular thing at the parties I have attended was bring your own drinks or mixes. Then we got to share a few drinks, maybe eat some really great food, and then get down to business. Very laid back and very fun.
Sometimes the sex is just a sort of by product or after thought to the really great conversation...it was sort of a spicy kind of evening at those functions.
I have never attended a party where drugs were involved and I don't think I would be all that interested if they were. I want my partner(s) to be in the moment not blissed out or shit faced. I've never seen anyone act out at a play party...the people are usually there for some fun not to get drunk or stoned.
10/13/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by FantasyFanatic
Understandable. Even when having sex with one person, I sometimes get a bit of performance anxiety. I'm not sure I'd be able to keep my cool with people all around. Other men potentially outdoing me, people watching and judging my skill in ... more
Honestly? Most of the people there are concentrating on what they are feeling/smelling/tasti ng. No one will be gawking or judging anyone...they are too busy! The arousing part comes when you see the people really having fun and it can be quite intoxicating.
10/13/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by edeneve
black & white for me - what about STD's/STI's???
You use condoms, dental dams, and gloves....and you know the people you are playing with. You can get hundreds of bacterial infections and hepatitis from eating in even the most upscale restaurant but I'm not gonna stop eating out because of that...I'll just choose a clean well run establishment and order my food well cooked. Same goes with a sex get together!
10/13/2012
Contributor: Forever Hers! Forever Hers!
No. My one partner is all I need.
10/16/2012
Contributor: roskat roskat
Nope, I've never been to one.
10/16/2012
Contributor: michael scofield michael scofield
No I would like to go to a place where swingers hang out just curious to see some
10/16/2012