being yourself is always the way to go.
Another personality poll - which one are you?
02/11/2012
I have a pretty aggressive but I'm 100% me 100% of the time. That's mostly just because I'm am the least intuitive person ever so I'm not so great at editing myself.
02/12/2012
I'm generally a quiet and reserved man, but I'm aggressive when it suits me...I've never gotten anything by being passive. Popularity is of little concern to me...I've never been, and the idea of being so makes me uncomfortable...I like my privacy.
02/12/2012
I prefer to just be myself.
02/16/2012
I'm introverted and shy for the most part so I find myself more fascinated about aggressive confidant people.
02/16/2012
I personally don't care if I'm popular or not. I like having friends and meeting new people, but it is not necessary for me.
05/20/2012
I would much rather have other people like my natural self. No gimmicks here!
12/29/2012
I think its most importation to be yourself and remember everyone is going through something in their own life as well.
12/29/2012
i have very few friends and i love it that way
12/29/2012
I just be me. No one else
12/29/2012
I always stay true to myself. I don't care too much for aggressive popularity-seekers...I tend not to get along with those people.
12/29/2012
where i come from there is no social ladder. theres like 300 people. i take care of my kids spend time with my good friends and see aquaintences the times we bump into them around town. Theres no crazy social climbing weirdos
12/29/2012
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this is a weird question, I never think about this. are you watching a lot of gossip girl or something?
Originally posted by
Rossie
I've seen people aggressively climbing the social ladder in the real world. They will go out of their ways to seek the right people, bedazzle them with their charming skill of words and planting big smiles on their faces, just so those people
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I've seen people aggressively climbing the social ladder in the real world. They will go out of their ways to seek the right people, bedazzle them with their charming skill of words and planting big smiles on their faces, just so those people will help these popularity seekers skyrocket to their acclaim status. Are you a popularity seeker, or would you rather be your original self? This is a private poll, please feel free to vote.
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12/29/2012
Original self
12/29/2012
I'm not aggressive, I'd rather be my original self.
12/29/2012
I am aggressive in order to get what I want, but often at the expense of popularity. People like me, but I do not give a damn what other people think either. So I have often pissed people off. The only ones I care what they think are my friends and they usually tell me when they feel like I am out of line. I could care less what other people who don't like me anyway think about me.
I have however, more recently, learned to be a little less aggressive and more amenable to promote a congenial and effective social environment, but never at the expense of who I am.
I have however, more recently, learned to be a little less aggressive and more amenable to promote a congenial and effective social environment, but never at the expense of who I am.
12/29/2012
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i try to stay away from people so im not like that at all
Originally posted by
Rossie
I've seen people aggressively climbing the social ladder in the real world. They will go out of their ways to seek the right people, bedazzle them with their charming skill of words and planting big smiles on their faces, just so those people
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more
I've seen people aggressively climbing the social ladder in the real world. They will go out of their ways to seek the right people, bedazzle them with their charming skill of words and planting big smiles on their faces, just so those people will help these popularity seekers skyrocket to their acclaim status. Are you a popularity seeker, or would you rather be your original self? This is a private poll, please feel free to vote.
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12/29/2012
I'm really not aggressive or competitive in any way.
12/29/2012
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This happens in the real world...and I do not watch Gossip Girl.
Originally posted by
heather-mooney
this is a weird question, I never think about this. are you watching a lot of gossip girl or something?
12/30/2012
I'm not really aggressive, but I am determined and persistent.
12/30/2012
I'm not aggressive.
12/30/2012
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Ugh! I sit next to someone similar to this personality type at work - I had to learn to tune her out to retain my sanity. She's not humble but she wants everyone to like her - needs her ego stroked constantly to offset her insecurities. I will say that it's been very interesting watching and listening to our coworkers interact with her for the past 4-5 years.
Originally posted by
Rossie
I'm talking about a specific type of people, such as newcomers to certain groups. They are so desperate to be accepted and be well-liked by others, they will pretentiously act humble and nice to please everyone (especially the higher ranking
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I'm talking about a specific type of people, such as newcomers to certain groups. They are so desperate to be accepted and be well-liked by others, they will pretentiously act humble and nice to please everyone (especially the higher ranking members), in return they'll get oohs and ahhs from everyone unaware of the facade. I find this kind of personality revolting, instead of being their true self, they have to go out of their way to be popular/noticed.
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12/30/2012
I'm a happy wallflower in social settings with people I don't know or don't know well while my husband is more social. He will approach others to initiate small talk while I'm the one that needs to be approached.
12/30/2012
It doesn't take any special skill or talent to be ruthless in work life and try to be a bland vanilla individual that you theoretically appeal to every coworker/colleague/pee r. A person who does what comes naturally is usually a much more genuine, real, and interesting person.
I'm guilty of being that first guy very often, but even thinking to myself when I see it in other people, I just find it distateful.
I'm guilty of being that first guy very often, but even thinking to myself when I see it in other people, I just find it distateful.
12/30/2012
free to be me.
12/30/2012
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