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Boobs... big deal

GravyCakes GravyCakes
I watched some random movie once where this woman asked this guy, "Why are guys so obsessed w/ boobs? I mean, their moms have boobs, & they don't love those." It made me wonder the exact same thing. A guy friend of mine told me it was b/c men don't have them, so it's sexy getting to play w/ something they don't have. What do you think?
05/16/2011
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Originally posted by GravyCakes
I watched some random movie once where this woman asked this guy, "Why are guys so obsessed w/ boobs? I mean, their moms have boobs, & they don't love those." It made me wonder the exact same thing. A guy friend of mine told me ...
Your friend is exactly right. Personally, I don't care about the size, just the presence.
05/16/2011
married with children married with children
I love nice looking boobs. Not sure why.
05/17/2011
hjtee hjtee
I don't really think it's the lack of boobs. I have them, but I still enjoy looking at and playing with them.
06/14/2011
Errant Venture Errant Venture
for me, it's more that they're defined as sexual objects by society, so almost automatically I want to touch them, caress them, massage them.
10/03/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
Cool thread. I have always wondered the same. I guess it's the same as me loving cocks .... it's something I don't have and is a real treat to play with one when I get the chance....lol.
10/03/2011
Wildchild Wildchild
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Originally posted by GravyCakes
I watched some random movie once where this woman asked this guy, "Why are guys so obsessed w/ boobs? I mean, their moms have boobs, & they don't love those." It made me wonder the exact same thing. A guy friend of mine told me ...
I don't know. I like big boobs, there great to look out and enjoy. maybe it's because I don't have any, I don't know.
10/03/2011
wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
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Originally posted by GravyCakes
I watched some random movie once where this woman asked this guy, "Why are guys so obsessed w/ boobs? I mean, their moms have boobs, & they don't love those." It made me wonder the exact same thing. A guy friend of mine told me ...
That's what someone told me about a urine fetish with women. He said that things don't really come out of women like they do in men, so it's sexy to see that sorta thing -shrugs-

I like boobs, doesn't matter if they are big or small. My gf is a b-cup, I'm a d-cup...used to be a c-cup but the damn things grew :-/
10/03/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
The breast gives sustenance and life to babies and young children. Those who have been fortunate enough to be nourished and comforted at the breast want to go back to that time. Those who never had the benefit of this manner of comfort, love and feeding method desire it even more.

Thus, the breast and the need to possess the breast is a common desire in our society.

In traditional societies where breastfeeding is common, not a "big deal" where women breastfeed in public without a thought an no one cares, where every baby and child has access to the breast, grown men DO NOT desire the breast for sexual purposes any more than any other part of the woman. Don't get me wrong, in these societies the breast IS used sexually, but no more thought to be "sexual" than the hand or the mouth, both of which are multiple use organs.

By denying children the breast and expecting women to hide when they feed their children, we have created an actual "fetish" for a beautiful, useful, but normal body part.

That's my story and I'm sticking to it.
10/03/2011
WierdAl WierdAl
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Originally posted by GravyCakes
I watched some random movie once where this woman asked this guy, "Why are guys so obsessed w/ boobs? I mean, their moms have boobs, & they don't love those." It made me wonder the exact same thing. A guy friend of mine told me ...
I wish I had boobs, thats my fasination with them.
10/03/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
I wanted to say one more thing and couldn't edit my post.

Thus, the breast and the need to possess the breast is a common desire in our society.

Those who make love to women want it because it reminds them of a way of loving, nurturing and peaceful time. Those who can give this type of love and nurturing often want to create the engorged and full look of a lactating breast by wearing bras with pads, push up garments and even getting surgery to make the breast look as if it is lactating.

In societies where the desire for the breast is satisfied in childhood, the fetish for breasts is much less common.

Artificial feeding and hiding of the actual breast while it is in use only adds to this fetish.
10/03/2011
ToyGurl ToyGurl
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Originally posted by GravyCakes
I watched some random movie once where this woman asked this guy, "Why are guys so obsessed w/ boobs? I mean, their moms have boobs, & they don't love those." It made me wonder the exact same thing. A guy friend of mine told me ...
Well theory is, and I believe it's 100% correct, is that men were taught to love boobs from the start. When they were younger (us too, women) loved breasts because that's where we were fed from. We fondled them and sucked them and stroked them, etc. There have even been many instances when male infants get erections as their mothers feed them. Usually unclothed, otherwise they wouldn't notice. Even young girls have been known to fondle their genitals during their feedings.

So pretty much... we've loved breasts from the start... and men were designed to love them... so I think that's why. I also studied this in college so I'm not BSing you lol!
10/03/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by ToyGurl
Well theory is, and I believe it's 100% correct, is that men were taught to love boobs from the start. When they were younger (us too, women) loved breasts because that's where we were fed from. We fondled them and sucked them and stroked ...
Hon, this really isn't true: (you said)
There have even been many instances when male infants get erections as their mothers feed them. Usually unclothed, otherwise they wouldn't notice. Even young girls have been known to fondle their genitals during their feedings. END QUOTE

I'm sorry, but it's a myth. Children do not find breastfeeding sexual. Making the breast a sexual organ is a construction of NON breastfeeding societies. I'm a Lactation Consultant and have nursed my own children into toddler-hood and even into preschool. I have NEVER seen the slightest sexual arousal in either my own or others children during breastfeeding.

I've had clients nurse plenty of boy babies naked, to increase skin contact and to help with bonding, and in several thousand clients, I have NEVER seen a single baby get an erection, or play with herself from or during a breastfeeding. How many babies have you seen get a hard on from simply gaining nourishment? Some babies get random erections from air contact during diaper changes, but not from breastfeeding. Promoting this myth simply makes breastfeeding seem even more "fringe" and will scare women away from it even more than they already are. *sigh*

Linking the breast with sex for children is a construct of a society that has a twisted and wrong relationship to both sex and lactating.

Children LOVE breasts, but in a totally NONSEXUAL way.
10/03/2011
emilia emilia
Men just want what they do not have.
10/03/2011
WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
Because breasts look like asses (no seriously)....in terms of evolution, before "people" were upright, asses provided visual cues to encourage dudes (like in monkeys) to mate. As "people" became upright, asses were no longer being displayed in everyone's faces, so breasts started to resemble butts so there would be a closer-to-eye-level equivalent to display readiness to mate to males.
Breasts do not exist solely for babies.
10/03/2011
MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
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Originally posted by WhoopieDoo
Because breasts look like asses (no seriously)....in terms of evolution, before "people" were upright, asses provided visual cues to encourage dudes (like in monkeys) to mate. As "people" became upright, asses were no longer being ...
They are fun to play with, kiss, etc. and a turn-on!
10/03/2011
AndroAngel AndroAngel
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Originally posted by WhoopieDoo
Because breasts look like asses (no seriously)....in terms of evolution, before "people" were upright, asses provided visual cues to encourage dudes (like in monkeys) to mate. As "people" became upright, asses were no longer being ...
This is also the version I've heard. The breast feeding explanation makes no sense to me at all, and I find it personally disturbing both as a possessor of and a fan of breasts. (I hate people trying to convince me they're nothing but milk-sacks, they're sexual to me, and I definitely enjoy them being sexual.) Besides, if they were solely for babies, why the hell do they feel so good to have fondled and kissed?
10/03/2011
WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
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Originally posted by AndroAngel
This is also the version I've heard. The breast feeding explanation makes no sense to me at all, and I find it personally disturbing both as a possessor of and a fan of breasts. (I hate people trying to convince me they're nothing but ...
I KNOW, RIGHT? Boobs don't have to be mounds of fat in order to feed babies. Milk ducts don't take up that much space. There is reason that fat collects in them.
10/04/2011
AndroAngel AndroAngel
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Originally posted by WhoopieDoo
I KNOW, RIGHT? Boobs don't have to be mounds of fat in order to feed babies. Milk ducts don't take up that much space. There is reason that fat collects in them.
That is true, humans are one of the few species that has breasts even though there are plenty that lactate. Badgers lactate, they don't have breasts.

Also, according to several sources I've seen, men can lactate too, which throws the theory right back out the window...
10/04/2011
Beck Beck
I am not sure of the reason, however it is really annoying. I am a very large chested women. I hate to have men staring at them all the time. I notice it all the time. They almost trip over themselves staring at them, I do not ever where low cut or thigh tops either. This has happened to me my whole life. I was a 38D by the time I was 13, everyone notice my breast and are always like damn. Even my husbands friends you can see them staring at them. I find myself walking around with my arms crossed so no one can stare so hard at them.
10/04/2011
Ash1141 Ash1141
I like boobs too. No idea why. They're pretty.
10/04/2011
babychika babychika
Because they're so soft and plush. The nipples are also a turn on!
10/04/2011
KrazyKandy KrazyKandy
I love them, I think its because its considered a healthy woman that will produce healthy babies. Its something that men think of without realizing it.
10/04/2011
gorgeous gorgeous
I asked my boyfriend why men liked boobs since they are just pads of fat. Why don't you like all the other fat just as much. His answer was because the other areas did not have nipples. Also it is a sign of fertility and lets him know that the person has been through puberty and can bear children.
05/01/2012
Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
I once asked my brother this question, and he said, "Well, they're there... they're fun... but when it comes down to it, they do get in the way sometimes." I don't think he really knew either.

Hard to say, really. The scientific theory is that, since most primates mate "doggy-style" most of the time while humans often mate face-to-face, over time breasts came to be rounder and fuller, resembling the butt which most other primates would be looking at during sex.
05/01/2012
Sci Sci
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Originally posted by gorgeous
I asked my boyfriend why men liked boobs since they are just pads of fat. Why don't you like all the other fat just as much. His answer was because the other areas did not have nipples. Also it is a sign of fertility and lets him know that the ...
lol. that was me
they are a sign of fertility, like curves on a woman. and yes, i like curvy women
05/01/2012
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