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Casual sex

Danielle1220 Danielle1220
Have you ever had casual sex? Like have you ever had sex without dating that person?

I've done this once. It was a one night stand, I was 19 at the time and he was 27, and it actually really sucked. It was a shame because I was really looking forward to it.
12/28/2010
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Darling Jen Darling Jen
Nope, never done it. Not that I would immediately turn it away if the opportunity presents itself now, I just haven't up to this point.

Sorry your experience sucked though.
12/28/2010
ToyGeek ToyGeek
Nope, I don't think I could. Too potentially awkward, even before you consider the possible consequences.
12/28/2010
*HisMrs* *HisMrs*
Nope. I would have to agree with ToyGeek, too potentially awkward!
12/28/2010
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Yes I have. The experiences have been a mixed bags. Most were fun, but there were a couple that I could have done without. And the bad ones were bad because the guys were terrible in bed, not because it was awkward at all.
12/28/2010
Beaners Beaners
Never done it. I like to be emotionally invested.
12/28/2010
Waterfall Waterfall
I have had casual sex. It is not something I do very often though. Its usually just ok, but depends on the person. There has been an occasion where things were awkward though.
12/29/2010
firekitten firekitten
There was a time a few years ago that I did this a lot. But I've gotten to a point that I just can't. No matter how hard I fight it, I end up becoming emotionally invested and that's just no bueno. It did make for some pretty good sex though.
12/29/2010
Dusk Dusk
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Originally posted by Beaners
Never done it. I like to be emotionally invested.
Agreed.
12/29/2010
Kim! Kim!
I've had sex outside of relationships but never one night stands. They've been friends with benefits type of situations, more of a "hey we're both single and sick of masturbating all of the time" thing.
12/29/2010
C4ss C4ss
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Originally posted by ToyGeek
Nope, I don't think I could. Too potentially awkward, even before you consider the possible consequences.
I agree completely.
12/29/2010
Envy Envy
Nope, I have to have a connection or be dating first. Otherwise I just feel used and thrown away, and that's a terrible feeling to have.
12/29/2010
Alicia Alicia
I've never had a one night stand but I have had sex with people that I was not officially dating. I don't know if it really counts though, becuase we basically acted like a couple does..we just never had any labels attached to what we were and they were short things that kind of just fizzled out..
12/29/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
A successful sexual encounter generally requires some knowledge of your partner - so for that reason even the first few attempts at sex with a partner can be less than explosive.

However I have had 1st time sex that was quite explosive - and it is possible in a one night stand. For me it's a question of convergence - if your mentally prepared for hot sex with a new partner - and they have the right skill set - BOOM - you've got it.

I haven't had casual sex in over 20 years - but I'd estimate when I was active my batting average was about 50-50 making it a attractive option at times.
12/29/2010
RubenesqueAna RubenesqueAna
I've had casual sex a few times. It was never awkward or anything, and sometimes it was great, sometimes it was sucky. But like a few people have said, it's more about the skills that the partner has and less about the awkwardness. And if you've ever discussed sex with that person at all before so you have an idea of what each other likes. Basically, it's not quite as great as sex with someone you're emotionally invested in because you can't have the nice pillow talk afterward and whatnot, but it can definitely still be fun.
12/29/2010
SomewhatSomewhere SomewhatSomewhere
The only person I've had sex with is my current boyfriend. I don't ever want casual sex--I want to be connected with that person.
12/29/2010
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