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DeliciousDrip DeliciousDrip
If your partner cheat on you. Would you go after the person they cheated on you with or would you go after your partner !? or BOTH ?


Personally, i would really try not to get hostile but my partner would be in DEEP SHIT with me. The other person isn't my concern UNLESS they knew about me and disrespected me behind my back.
08/29/2011
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Sir Sir
I would go after my partner. It's not the person who had sex with my partner's fault, it's my partner's. My partner is the one who cheated. My partner is the one who disobeyed me, betrayed me, and completely humiliated me. My partner is the one who would be punished.

I am VERY against disliking, becoming angry at, or generally hating people who my partner cheated on me with. In the case of my ex, the only one that I disliked was one who made rude, nasty comments about what I'm supposedly "lacking" that he has. But that's because he personally offended me. Every other time, I got pissed at my ex. It was my ex's fault.
08/29/2011
Ansley Ansley
If we're friends? I'm putting you six feet under and not even thinking twice about it. If you're some random he met while I wasn't around, you've got a free pass. He's catching hell either way.
08/29/2011
Sir Sir
I actually still wouldn't even if it was a friend. It's not my friend's job to keep my partner under wraps, it's mine. However, I probably would not want to be that person's friend any longer.
08/29/2011
Peggi Peggi
Hmm

I certainly would go after my partner, but it depends on if the person they cheated with knew that they were with me. If so, then heck yes! If not then no, not their fault.
08/29/2011
[Red] [Red]
I'd go after my lover. I would try to address the issues leading them to stray and try to heal our relationship, but it would hurt and it would take a long time to heal.

And if the person they cheated with was aware that my lover was taken, I'd raise hell for them, too. There is no excuse for that kind of disrespect. It says a lot about a person who is willing to be involved with someone else who is already in a relationship.

My father cheated on my mother with some chick at work before they divorced, and that woman knew he was married, he met my sister and I and hell, we even rode her horses, we went places with her. We thought she was a friend. Then we learned my dad was fucking her and I hated the woman. Hated my father, yes, but I wanted to salvage my relationship with him. With the bitch he cheated with, I wanted to torture her, punish her, make her pay for what she consented to. She helped him ruin our family. She knew the man was married and she knew he had kids and she pretended to be our friend, all the while fucking the man and giving him a place to run away to-- a place away from his real family. I hated her guts, and I let her know it at ten years of age. I continued to let her know it five years afterward, and when she decided she couldn't handle one of his daughters ignoring her and treating her like an inanimate object, she left him.

I'm still not sorry for it, either. 8D

Anyways. Back on track, if the person my lover cheated with wasn't aware of their relationship status, then I would have no grievance with them. I would make them aware of the situation, of course, but they wouldn't be at fault.
08/29/2011
Ghost Ghost
I wouldn't go after anyone. I'd just dump him.
08/30/2011
Sir Sir
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Originally posted by Ghost
I wouldn't go after anyone. I'd just dump him.
HAH! Good answer!
08/30/2011
indiglo indiglo
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Originally posted by Ansley
If we're friends? I'm putting you six feet under and not even thinking twice about it. If you're some random he met while I wasn't around, you've got a free pass. He's catching hell either way.
LOL This sums up how I feel perfectly!!!
08/30/2011
indiglo indiglo
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Originally posted by Ansley
If we're friends? I'm putting you six feet under and not even thinking twice about it. If you're some random he met while I wasn't around, you've got a free pass. He's catching hell either way.
Double post, sorry!
08/30/2011
DeliciousDrip DeliciousDrip
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Originally posted by [Red]
I'd go after my lover. I would try to address the issues leading them to stray and try to heal our relationship, but it would hurt and it would take a long time to heal.

And if the person they cheated with was aware that my lover was ...
omg. that's HOMEWRECKER status ! i would have put her through H E L L !!!!
08/30/2011
[Red] [Red]
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Originally posted by DeliciousDrip
omg. that's HOMEWRECKER status ! i would have put her through H E L L !!!!
*salute*

Definitely.
08/30/2011
married with children married with children
I would help her pack up her stuff, and she could be on her way. No need to get hostile about it.
08/30/2011
Sir Sir
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Originally posted by DeliciousDrip
omg. that's HOMEWRECKER status ! i would have put her through H E L L !!!!
What is a homewrecker?
08/30/2011
DeliciousDrip DeliciousDrip
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Originally posted by Sir
What is a homewrecker?
someone who is blamed for breaking up a marriage or a family by having an affair with one of the partners...
08/30/2011
Sir Sir
Quote:
Originally posted by DeliciousDrip
someone who is blamed for breaking up a marriage or a family by having an affair with one of the partners...
Wow. That's ridiculous.
08/30/2011
Nothere Nothere
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
If we're friends? I'm putting you six feet under and not even thinking twice about it. If you're some random he met while I wasn't around, you've got a free pass. He's catching hell either way.
Agree!
08/31/2011
Vegan Silk Vegan Silk
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Originally posted by Ghost
I wouldn't go after anyone. I'd just dump him.
my sentiments exactly
08/31/2011
Beck Beck
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Originally posted by Ghost
I wouldn't go after anyone. I'd just dump him.
Same answer here, although I would give him a slap on my way out the door!
08/31/2011
Screen Door Screen Door
I hate when people get mad at the person that their partner cheated on them with, instead of getting mad at their partner. I would be insanely upset about my man and the person he cheated on me with, but HE'S the one in the most trouble with me.
08/31/2011
sarki sarki
I would be furious at the partner unless it was with someone I knew then both would cop it
08/31/2011
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
like my papa says, if you want to leave, don't let the door hit you on the way out. i'm not in the business to make people pay or whatever, i'll just ditch them and find someone who won't be dishonest.
08/31/2011
MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
Both, totally not cool and a deal breaker....
09/22/2011
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