Is it rude to ask for a check up?

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Is it rude to ask for a check up?

jjesssica jjesssica
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Do you find it rude if you ask someone to get checked before having sex with them,?, it can be offensive, but its for your own safety.
06/01/2012
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JG24FanUK JG24FanUK
No, I might be caught off guard being asked that, but if they want to be safe I see nothing wrong with it.
06/01/2012
AmberM AmberM
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Originally posted by jjesssica
Do you find it rude if you ask someone to get checked before having sex with them,?, it can be offensive, but its for your own safety.
No, i don't find it rude at all. It's a good thing to want to be safe.
06/01/2012
pixxie87 pixxie87
heck no...It makes me happy that my partner is being responsible.
06/01/2012
KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
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Originally posted by jjesssica
Do you find it rude if you ask someone to get checked before having sex with them,?, it can be offensive, but its for your own safety.
Not at all. I think it is important to start with a clean slate when having sex.
06/01/2012
Dixiemomma Dixiemomma
it can be awkward... but still with everything going around now its smart thing to do
06/01/2012
Pixel Pixel
Not rude at all. I don't sleep with someone unless they have been tested recently and not had unprotected sex since their last clean test.
06/01/2012
Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
Awkward? Yes. Rude? Absolutely not.
06/01/2012
CindyH CindyH
rude no but have to agree with rin would be awkward to ask someone
06/01/2012
jjesssica jjesssica
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Originally posted by CindyH
rude no but have to agree with rin would be awkward to ask someone
yea I also agree, It could be weird.
06/08/2012
luisss luisss
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Originally posted by jjesssica
Do you find it rude if you ask someone to get checked before having sex with them,?, it can be offensive, but its for your own safety.
i think its a fair question.. cause no one ever knows who really the people they were with was like.. even though the one u love is clean and good person
07/12/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Nope, because awkward as it is, it's a fair question and shows that you care about your body
07/12/2012
authorzero authorzero
No it isn't rude. It's a little awkward, but it shows responsibility.
07/12/2012
CaliGirl CaliGirl
I think it is great that they care about their health.
07/12/2012
dontbackdown02 dontbackdown02
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Originally posted by jjesssica
Do you find it rude if you ask someone to get checked before having sex with them,?, it can be offensive, but its for your own safety.
if that person really cares for you it won't be rude and they won't see it as being rude
07/17/2012
LilLostLenore LilLostLenore
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Originally posted by jjesssica
Do you find it rude if you ask someone to get checked before having sex with them,?, it can be offensive, but its for your own safety.
I think its a good idea so you dont possibly catch any stds.
07/17/2012
JennSenn JennSenn
It's not rude, it's a good idea.
07/17/2012
Errant Venture Errant Venture
Well, it's easier to just use a condom, but if I was at that point in a relationship then there's nothing wrong with asking.
07/17/2012
Katelyn Katelyn
It isn't ruse it is responsible! If they haven't had a checkup in a while it is good for them to know as well : )
07/17/2012
Sundae Sparkles Sundae Sparkles
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Originally posted by LilLostLenore
I think its a good idea so you dont possibly catch any stds.
highfive to that
07/17/2012
Peggi Peggi
Plus, maybe they've never been checked and were born with something, you never know. So it's always good to want to know, and I actually have asked personally for every partner I had up until I met hubby. If I didn't know they were clean I didn't want to have sex with them. It was just because of how paranoid I am to get something, and if they had something I wanted to know how to take precautions.

No one has EVER minded and no one has EVER objected
07/17/2012
Woman China Woman China
I'd be a little... whoa... usually it is me that is asking!!!

But I would ask them for a check up as well.
07/17/2012
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