My Man bought me my first toy. I was having some hormonal problems and having a difficult time having an orgasm (after years of having no problems at all in that arena) I was NOT happy as he just thrust it into my hand without telling me first. I actually got angry.
But, as time went on, I decided it was a good idea. Now, we use them frequently. But, we were having sex for many years before I even considered getting a sex toy.
I actually, when I was younger, though they were only for old maids and lesbians. (Was I naive or what?) OBVIOUSLY, I've changed my mind and I was wrong before.