Did You Have A Nice Valentine's Day?

Spent a bunch of time with friends, so it was all good

Saturday we did dinner and a movie since we were both off of work. Today for V-day we both worked, but spent some time together before she fell asleep. Nothing major really, no gifts, but definitely a card each.

We exchanged gifts last week. I gave him three things: a new wallet, a new otterbox for his phone, and some undies. He gave me an iPhone he bought from a chick he used to fuck behind my back. This morning on his way to run some "personal errands" he told me happy vday. That was about the extent of it on his end. Today I wrote this long ass post on his FB wall and he didn't even respond with a "thank u", "I love you too", "happy vday"... NOTHING... It was up there since 4 am. He mentioned it to me on the phone when we talked and said he didn't have time to respond... Yet he responded to his friend's posts all day.

When he got home, I left and went to work. Got home from wok and he still never responded to it. So around 11 pm I took it upon myself to delete the post I wrote from his wall. If he doesn't care enough to respond to it then it doesn't need to be there.

Them he comes to bed and just conks out. No "good night" or "fuck you"... Nothing but turning away from me and going to sleep.

Sorry for ranting... I'm just having a shitty day and I hate feeling unloved and that's exactly what I'm feeling right now.

It really wasn't noteworthy but it was nice for me.

it was alright. i had breakfast with my mom, drew a bit with a friend of mine, crash, woke up and doodles some more with friends, crashed later on in the night and i'm up again now. basically my valentines day was full of drawing. XD

It was lovely : )

Just me but I still had fun! My friend got me a card and I ate some chocolate! lol

I'm a bit under the weather, and I worked all night so it wasn't the best valentine's day ever.

I've had worse, though, so it's okay

Nothing special, just the wonderfully peaceful and pleasant stuff W/we do everyday, chillin away, watching movies, giving lots of L/lovins to E/each O/other, oh and W/we opened the two packages I ordered stuffed with finest toys, Master loved them all, so they still have to be checked out better, but it is always fun to open gifts like a kid and being all excited about it! ^^

I got the greatest card from my owner! It is the little things that make it great!

Let's see...I burnt the pork chops. The seasoning packet for the pasta salad had almost no seasoning in it, just crouton pieces. Then half way through dinner my sister-in-law called and kept my husband on the phone for about forty-five minutes and the rest of the night was spent talking about family crap. Yay! Not.

It was great! Nothing fancy, but it was the first time I've ever been in a relationship for Valentines and my boyfriend was super sweet. Looking forward to doing some more celebrating since we're going away for a romantic weekend.

We went out to a low key dinner. Later that night I broke out my toys for the first time in our relationship. It went really well.

It was very nice, thanks for asking.

I'm sorry to hear it wasn't so for others... three years ago I had a terrible Valentine's day due to issues out of anyone's control, so I'm glad last year and this year are making up for that. Hopefully better things come your way as well.

My wife had a headache so we really didn't celebrate anything...maybe tonight.

Overall my Valentine's stuff has been good so far, but there's still this weekend with my current guy. Fingers crossed ^_^

I spent it watching Teen Titans while receiving a plethora of texts from my significant other complaining about Star Wars and George Lucas. Luckily we are going to have a real Valentines celebration this weekend so I am looking forward to that

I had a great valentine's day with my GF

Mine was decent. Hubby came home from work with balloons, chocolate and a fake bunch of flowers (I don't like real ones lol). He also had a really nice card. I made him porterhouse steaks with some awesome fixings and we sat at the table eating dinner with my glass of wine and his beer We watched our 7 month old try to crawl on the floor while we ate. She is so adorable Wouldn't have wanted to spend it any other way!

I voted other. I was alone on vday which sucked but I got some things taken care of that I needed to so I got to just relax.

we had a lovely vday planned and it started incredible - flowers, dinner, chocolate, gifts exchanged, sex... then we got in a few fights, the last one he called me a bitch for no good reason and i left.

i intended on spending the night in, but on a whim called a good old friend of mine, who i've had sexual encounters with in the past, casually.

he suggested we go to a strip club. i'd never been. i was nervous, uncomfortable, but he took my hand, bought my beers and my lap dance from this super cute gal who was so down to earth and so into me. she madeout with me, licked my nipples. i was in heaven.


i kissed him. it was amazing.

long story short i told my boyfriend about it. he has fantasies of me being with other people, men AND women, and we were about to add a girl to our bedroom. he gets off sometimes only from hearing me tell him about me being with guys in the past. so. i told him i kissed my male friend.

he freaked out.



he called me later at work, his grandma was dead unexpectedly.

i left work to go be with him. i knew he needed me.


he got really drunk and was incoherent, i've never seen him so distraught.

other awful things ensued, further sealing the nail on the coffin of our relationship.

he wants to be with me though he feels i cheated on him. i'm not going through that again. out of respect for him, i won't. out of respect for myself, i won't. it's obvious i want the open relationship we were moving towards, the open relationship he's now saying can't happen. and i won't live in the shadow of a mistake, the shadow of the pain i've caused him. i won't look at him every day and feel guilt and know that i've hurt him.

that kind of trust can't be won back.


it's over. now i have to bide my time and fake it till his mourning period is somewhat diminishing. we've been together a year and a half. it hurts.

Spent the day with tiny baby kittens snuggled up to me, and came home with a sweet little boy kitten of my own. I pretend he is my Valentine, because I am otherwise single.

It wasn't horrible!

i always look forward to valentine's day! unfortunately we both had to work this year. we spent the entire night together after work. dinner, a movie, cards, chocolate. nothing extreme but perfect for me! <3