Did You Lie To Your Friends About Your Sex Life As A Teen? (Private Voting)

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Did You Lie To Your Friends About Your Sex Life As A Teen? (Private Voting)

Ansley Ansley
Someone I thought I was very close to as a teenager told me wild, tall-tales about her life. I cannot quite figure out the reasoning behind it other than manipulation. I'm curious who else has lied about their sexual prowess.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I am female and I told my friends I wasn't a virgin and I was
4
I am male and I told my friends I wasn't a virgin and I was
3
I am trans and I told my friends I wasn't a virgin and I was
1
I am female and I grossly exaggerated my sexual encounters for status
1
I am male and I grossly exaggerated my sexual encounters for status
2
I am trans and I grossly exaggerated my sexual encounters for status
I am female and I didn't talk about my sex life to anyone but my partner
10
I am male and I didn't talk about my sex life to anyone but my partner
3
I am trans and I didn't talk about my sex life to anyone but my partner
1
I am still a virgin and do not exaggerate or lie about my sex life
1
I am still a virgin and I do exaggerate or lie about my sex life
Other
26
Total votes: 52 (43 voters)
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03/25/2011
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PunkyB PunkyB
I went the other way with my lies...for a while I was VERY sexually active. I was a late bloomer (17), but after I bloomed I went wild. I didn't tell many people about my experiences for fear of being ridiculed for my "whorish" behavior...I grew up in a very small town where everyone knew everyone else. I was that way for quite a few years even after I moved away and joined the military. I'm now much more comfotable with myself and my sexuality. I dont talk about it to people as a rule, but if they ask for advice I will share my experiences and what I have learned.
03/25/2011
Sammi Sammi
I haven't told a lot of people about my early sex life, just a few people. I do have some awfully wild stories, because I was rather wild as a teen, but there's only a few I'd regale with them.
03/25/2011
joja joja
Totally lied about being a virgin all the time. I was part of a group in high school that got into drugs/sex pretty early, and I felt lame for not having found anyone. Plus I was just horny and was hoping the guise of experience would make it easier to get some.
03/25/2011
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
I was honest (probably too honest) with my close friends.
03/26/2011
darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I only really talked about my sex life with my partner. My friends knew that I had slept with him, though we never talked about it. I never tried to exaggerate or lie to anyone, since I didn't feel it would prove anything anyway.
03/26/2011
Coralbell Coralbell
I never lied about being a virgin, or exaggerated stories, but I have talked to friends about it.
03/26/2011
indiglo indiglo
When I was a teen, I used to make up all kinds of stories. Such a silly thing to do. LOL
03/26/2011
mama2007 mama2007
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Someone I thought I was very close to as a teenager told me wild, tall-tales about her life. I cannot quite figure out the reasoning behind it other than manipulation. I'm curious who else has lied about their sexual prowess.
I was almost 21 when i did anything and only been with 1 person = my husband so i have nothing to hide from anything, other than he was not divorced yet when we met
03/26/2011
Crystal1 Crystal1
Where I grew up, the kids in high school that had sex were a major minority, it was a huge scandal to hear a couple slept together.
03/27/2011
tigerkate tigerkate
I never lied about my lack of a sex life. At all! No need, all my friends knew already that I wasn't seeing anyone. We were all close, so it didn't matter much.

I didn't lose my virginity til I was 19 or 20. And then, I did tell my best friend from high school
03/27/2011
Dusk Dusk
I was a virgin all throughout high school but I never lied about it. If my friends were close enough to me for me to disclose anything about my sex life, they were close enough to hear the truth. Besides, I like offering my friends advice from personal experience which doesn't work if I'm lying to them the whole time. Some people assumed I wasn't a virgin and I didn't necessarily tell them otherwise; why bother anyway? Now that I've had PIV sexual intercourse (my personal definition of losing my own virginity) I've only told two people.
03/27/2011
That Guy That Guy
I'm a prodigious liar, but I've always been very open about my own sexual failures. I don't really tell anyone when I do get it, but I've always been more than happy to make a big deal about it when I don't.
03/27/2011
Jul!a Jul!a
I never lied about my sex life when I was a teenager. I hadn't done much, but I wasn't ashamed of having or having not done anything. If I wasn't comfortable with something, I wouldn't do it, and if I wanted to try it, I brought it up to my boyfriend and we tried it. I only had a few friends that discussed this with me then anyway.
04/04/2011
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
I was very sexually active as a teenager and no, I didn't lie about it. Everyone knew.
04/04/2011
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
In high school, I only talked to my boyfriend about it until half way through senior year when I told my best friend. Before I dated my boyfriend however, he made up sex romps to try to impress me, although as a virgin at the time, they turned me off more than anything and I was worried he would be too much of a player for me. If people have ever asked me directly, I have never lied to them about what I have done, although I never brought up the subject before college.
04/04/2011
nicole07 nicole07
I did not share with my friends...it was private info to me
04/23/2011
barrettbn2 barrettbn2
i kept it to myself
04/23/2011
kawigrl kawigrl
when i was a teen i was a nerd we all studied to much no one talked about sex i think the assumption was that none of us were having any
04/23/2011
Mommy2 Mommy2
I kept it a secret
04/23/2011
tickle me pink tickle me pink
I'm not still a virgin but I was all through my teen years and though I didn't discuss it with anyone they all knew I wasn't dating anyone.
04/24/2011
married with children married with children
I tell all my friends who ask me about it. Other then that it does not come up.
06/17/2011
sweetiebelle sweetiebelle
I told my friends about some of it, mostly at sleepovers and shit.

At first I didn't tell anyone about losing my virginity.

The first time we told anyone was actually a really weird story...

Me, my boyfriend and three other of my female friends were hanging out at one of their houses and Im not quite sure what happened, but we all ended up fooling around, we had my boyfriend down to his boxers and all of us down to our underwear, and randomly some of our eyes would connect and we would jump on one person and hold them down and 'play' with them.

first time I fingered a girl XD

then a couple weeks later two of the friends that were there that night invited us over to another one of their houses and we handcuffed my boyfriend to the bed and messed around with him, but he got so worked up he wanted to fuck me.

We had already been having sex but no one knew about it, he broke out of the cuffs(they were cheap) and held me down. My friends were flipping out and I he kept growling at me to tell them how much I loved it when he fucked me, and how often we had sex.

I did, then he smirked and grabbed a condom and fucked me right there while he fingered my other friend.


twas a good night.
06/17/2011
MaryExy MaryExy
I learned that, even though I started years after my sis had (and have still done less with fewer partners), she would lecture and yell at me if I ever mentioned anything about sex. So, I just stopped trying to talk to anyone besides my partner about sex. Only recently was I able to talk about it, with this girl in my art class senior year of high school. She was with her first "intimate" boyfriend and needed some direction/advice, so I ended up talking to her a good bit about it (including thorough discussions of how to avoid anal looking like a horror-movie, and reassurance that wanting to be choked isn't bad).

I never lied about sex. I just avoided talking to people about it. If someone asked me directly about something, I would always tell the truth (I would keep my answer short, though, to avoid further discussion of how "I seemed like the person at school LEAST likely to have already had sex, when I in fact was one of maybe 10 who wasn't a virgin")
06/17/2011
Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
I didn't have a sex life as a teen and I didn't talk about sex at all. I was a bit of a goody-two-shoes. I obviously got over that.
06/17/2011
Errant Venture Errant Venture
Many times, yes. I went to an all boy's high school, so there was a lot of bullshitting going on. That's why I'm dreading the reunion...
06/17/2011
Total posts: 26
Unique posters: 26