Did you lose your virginity with a man or with a toy?

Contributor: Pandwhora Pandwhora
I lost my virginity to man, broke my hymen with a toy. *eyeroll*
03/03/2013
Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
Lost my virginity to another woman at 16 as a senior in High School

(Had my hymen removed via surgery when I was around 8 or 9.)
03/03/2013
Contributor: SecondStory SecondStory
Virginity is a social construct based on having sex with a person. You can't lose your virginity by putting a toy, or your fingers, or a tampon, etc. in yourself on your own. It has to be with someone else.
03/03/2013
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
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Originally posted by Kitka
I had used toys before losing my virginity, but I consider losing one's virginity to be something that happens with another person, not toys.
Same here. I still considered myself a virgin after using a toy but before I had sex.
03/03/2013
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by AishiteruYO
Did you lose your virginity with a man or with a toy?
With a man.
03/03/2013