Do you believe in marriage/divorce?

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Do you believe in marriage/divorce?

chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
growing up I watched my parents go through a bad divorce, I always said I wouldn't get married because of it. Surprisingly, I found a man who changed that for me.Next month will be 4 years that we have been married.

Do you believe in marriage?
Do you believe in divorce?
01/12/2013
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spunkmonkey spunkmonkey
Yes, I believe in marriage.
01/12/2013
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Yep, in both.
01/12/2013
js250 js250
I believe in marriage, it is an amazing commitment to be in but not always easy to fulfill. Therefore, I believe that if there is no other way to improve or fix the issues that arise--there should be divorce. So, yes--I believe in both of them.
01/12/2013
tequilafish tequilafish
I believe in both of them. I think that you shouldn't avoid marriage because of fear of divorce, but I think you shouldn't make that commitment lightly either. However, I think that relationships change/become unhealthy and divorce is necessary. My parents got divorced when I was young, and in hindsight I'm really glad because their relationship was very unhealthy and I would have had an unpleasant childhood if they had stayed in their marriage.
01/13/2013
K101 K101
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Originally posted by chantalgiardina
growing up I watched my parents go through a bad divorce, I always said I wouldn't get married because of it. Surprisingly, I found a man who changed that for me.Next month will be 4 years that we have been married.

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I'm really sorry to hear that you had to go through that. It'd have to be tough. I can understand your fears and reasoning behind not wanting to marry because of what you've been through. Actually, I'd probably be the same way if I were in that situation.

Anyways, yes. I believe in marriage and divorce. I think both should be taken extremely seriously though and that one should only marry if they truly feel that they will love and be devoted to that person forever. Of course things happen, but you should make sure you are certain before going into marriage. I do believe in divorce if it's a last resort and you are being treated badly, hurt or there is little chance of you being happy together as a couple. It's best to separate and go on instead of live where neither could ever be happy. As for abuse and being treated with disrespect, I think divorce is a perfectly acceptable option and I personally would not hesitate to divorce over being mistreated or being betrayed. However, a divorce shouldn't be drug to the point of kids having to go through anymore than they will have to. They shouldn't see the bad parts.

That is amazing that you have found love so powerful that you could consider changing something that you once felt so strongly about. Love is strange! Congratulations and I hope it works out wonderfully for you.
01/13/2013
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