Do you feel sexy?

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Do you feel sexy?

VioletMoonstone VioletMoonstone
I am not feeling sexy at all. It sucks. I know there's things I could try but I have barely any motivation to even make an attempt. I'm struggling with my body image, confidence, and lots of other drama. It's really wearing on me. I've been through a lot and sexy just isn't sexy anymore. I'm not sure what I should do. Any ideas? What do you do that makes you feel good and sexy?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes! I feel so sexy right now.
21
Nope. Not sexy at all.
21
Kinda inbetween...
36
Total votes: 78 (75 voters)
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01/04/2013
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Andrey2052 Andrey2052
Nope. Not sexy at all.
01/04/2013
ARPKasso ARPKasso
I don't feel sexy atm. But sometimes if I want to feel more sexy I'll just play dress-up. I usually won't go anywhere, but sometimes just putting on nice clothes, and doing my hair makes me feel plenty sexy.
01/04/2013
Living Doll Living Doll
Making an effort to look cute and act confident always does the trick for me.
01/04/2013
Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
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Originally posted by VioletMoonstone
I am not feeling sexy at all. It sucks. I know there's things I could try but I have barely any motivation to even make an attempt. I'm struggling with my body image, confidence, and lots of other drama. It's really wearing on me. ...
Yes! I feel so sexy right now
01/04/2013
Beck Beck
Not at the moment, but I do sometimes.
01/04/2013
Hummingbird Hummingbird
After 58 years of living I finally started feeling sexy last year. I found a real neat salon that does just about everything. I started first with nails every other week. A month after starting with my nails I had my hair done. A month after that I had a half day treatment, including , hair, nails (manicure & pedicure), facial and back massage.

Now I go every other week for a full manicure, monthly for a pedicure and facial (which includes waxing) and every six weeks for a hair trim and color. At 59 I feel young, alive, beautiful and sexy. Since joining the salon I made small changes personally. First a little color on my lips, then later moisturizer on my face, followed by eye color and on. I took one small step at a time and now it's just routine and I love it.

Then I began attacking my wardrobe, that is my current project right now which takes a little longer because I watch for sales and bargains.
01/04/2013
joiedejouets joiedejouets
Just woke up, and I usually feel sexy for no apparent reason at all.
01/04/2013
Rod Ronald Rod Ronald
some days I do.
01/04/2013
panthercat23 panthercat23
Some days I do but not right now.
01/04/2013
indiglo indiglo
I normally feel sexy, but not right now.

I'm battling a severe head cold or the flu at the moment (I can never distinguish between the 2)... and I'm not feeling sexy at all.
01/04/2013
HarlequinBunnie HarlequinBunnie
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Originally posted by VioletMoonstone
I am not feeling sexy at all. It sucks. I know there's things I could try but I have barely any motivation to even make an attempt. I'm struggling with my body image, confidence, and lots of other drama. It's really wearing on me. ...
I haven't felt sexy in years due to a huge weight gain. I went from a size 3 to a size 16 in a matter of 2 years because of a failed surgery. I have lost around 35 to 40 pounds so I feel sexier then I did but I'm still not flaunting it. I feel sexy when I see my husbands eyes widening after I fix myself up or when we go out and someone flirts with me. It doesn't happen often but when it does....wow I can't help but smile.
01/04/2013
padmeamidala padmeamidala
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Originally posted by VioletMoonstone
I am not feeling sexy at all. It sucks. I know there's things I could try but I have barely any motivation to even make an attempt. I'm struggling with my body image, confidence, and lots of other drama. It's really wearing on me. ...
Yes. I feel very sexy right now.
01/04/2013
married with children married with children
always feel sexy
01/04/2013
Pururin Pururin
I don't feel as sexy as I used to. :/ It makes me feel sexy when I wear nice lingerie though.
01/04/2013
(k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
I kindof swing back and forth. Some days I feel like "Damn, I'm hot!" and other days I'm like "Ok, I'm the queen of frump..."
01/04/2013
EmuLove EmuLove
Sometimes I do but most of the time I dont
01/04/2013
PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
At times I do and at times I don't.
01/04/2013
sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't.
01/04/2013
edeneve edeneve
I always wear sexy panties and bras. plus I dress sexy when I go out every weekend. also, I dress sexy most of the week as well. and I never leave the house w/o my hair & face done well.
01/04/2013
Freyja9 Freyja9
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Originally posted by VioletMoonstone
I am not feeling sexy at all. It sucks. I know there's things I could try but I have barely any motivation to even make an attempt. I'm struggling with my body image, confidence, and lots of other drama. It's really wearing on me. ...
I feel sexy right now because I am feeling happy. On days where I feel depressed, not so much.
01/04/2013
JennSenn JennSenn
I don't feel sexy right now, but sometimes dressing up nice can help.
01/04/2013
Supervixen Supervixen
I feel sexy right now, but I just got a deep tissue massage and having a glass of wine.

But I make the effort to feel sexy most of the time, because it gives me a boost in my self-confidence, and it just feels good. Wearing clothes that you like and feel good in, doing your make up a little differently, fixing your hair, all that can contribute to making you feel better. But physical health is huge, too. A few months ago, I started running, and it really does make you feel better to get that circulation flowing and release the endorphins that running does for you. Plus, it's really good for you. It's a healthy way to slim down or stay slim, and fit. Yoga is another exercise that I love. And zumba, if you like dancing.

Stress and body image issues are usually related, I've found, and feed into each other. Taking care of yourself, physically, can really help. Even if at first you just feel "blah..." stick with it, and eventually, you'll see results.

And get a massage and have a glass of wine--works wonders.
01/04/2013
KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
i dont feel sexy when i first wkae up at all. lol. I feel sexy when im in a bubblebath drinking a glass of white wine
01/04/2013
kkizzee05 kkizzee05
I try to make myself look nice and cute and will wear some sexy undies lol to help. No one knows but me and it's kinda' a pick-me-up
01/04/2013
Marie Hanna Marie Hanna
Yes! But not every day.
01/04/2013
Awux Awux
Quote:
Originally posted by VioletMoonstone
I am not feeling sexy at all. It sucks. I know there's things I could try but I have barely any motivation to even make an attempt. I'm struggling with my body image, confidence, and lots of other drama. It's really wearing on me. ...
Sometimes I feel sexy but not very often
01/04/2013
Chilipepper Chilipepper
Usually awkward (fortunately, C thinks my geekiness is sexy). Although backseamed stockings and pencil skirts help in warming me up.
01/04/2013
Aishiteru Aishiteru
Not very much right now.
01/05/2013
Inkkythesquid Inkkythesquid
Kind Of In Between. I Just Talked To My Master, And He Always Makes Me Feel Sexy, But I Look In The Mirror, And I Have A Serious Acne Breakout, Plus Its That Time Of The Month, So I'm All Bloated. Not Feeling Super Sexy
01/05/2013
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