Do you have a Sex Diary?

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Do you have a Sex Diary?

kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
I was thinking about doing one just don't really know what to write in it..Last night was fun with my boyfriend I could write about him telling me the dirty look he tells me I give him at work that makes him want to rip my clothes off...lol I just think it would be fun to have a sex diary what do you think one of those tape recorders would be fun to record a conversation? Of course I would tell my boyfriend I'm recording it and will lock it up when I'm done..I think it would be fun and real listening to the tapes..but would I really take the time and go back to listen? maybe tape and written diary then? I'm curious if anyone has specific things or a list of things they write down in their entrys like wat toys u used or maybe the name of a porn dvd u watched or perhaps wat u were wearing? I think my sex diary would be kind of dull though.
09/15/2010
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P'Gell P'Gell
I actually do. It's just a day planner, I have a code where I put what we did, when and what the results were. I am a real detail person. When I was having orgasm issues, it really helped me figure out what the problem was, the timing, what was done to remedy the problem etc.

I don't write in it, per say, I just keep a code of what we did, and, because it's MY journal, whether it resulted in orgasms for me or not. He can keep his own, if he likes, but he won't.
09/15/2010
kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
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Originally posted by P'Gell
I actually do. It's just a day planner, I have a code where I put what we did, when and what the results were. I am a real detail person. When I was having orgasm issues, it really helped me figure out what the problem was, the timing, what was ...
It would be cool if there was someone on here that typed theres and wouldn't mind letting me look then I could get more ideas LOL..is that weird?

a day planner whats that like a callender can u send a link to on sorry I probly used to know wat that was when I was in high school lol I can go google it.
09/15/2010
gone77 gone77
I've never been one for keeping a physical diary. I've tried but always felt embarrassed by what I've written. The closest thing I've got to a sex diary (more like masturbation diary) is my blog, but I haven't been posting anything sexy there lately.
09/15/2010
Chilipepper Chilipepper
I have notes scattered all over my notebooks and diary and such about my activity - all of it hand-written. Most of it is comprised of "He actually wants me - what's wrong with him?" (This all having to do with Mulder, of course.) Right now it's filled with "I smegging hate being celibate, what's wrong with me in which I can't find someone who's unattached who'd want me??"
09/15/2010
kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
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Originally posted by Chilipepper
I have notes scattered all over my notebooks and diary and such about my activity - all of it hand-written. Most of it is comprised of "He actually wants me - what's wrong with him?" (This all having to do with Mulder, of course.) Right ...
uh don't know wat u are talking about clibate? unattached?

I think my diary will consist of my sex life lists of stuff I have(really don't have much right now but will change) porn and wat scenes I liked alot..lists of hentai I watched for free that I liked...maybe I could put articles I find interesting sometimes u see stuff on msn or yahoo. I've read guys like getting flowers..or stuff about what guys hate or wat smells they like alot.
09/15/2010
Envy Envy
Celibate means to abstain from sex, and in this case it's involuntary celibate because she can't find someone who isn't take (unattached).

I don't do diaries. Too many problems of people reading them. For a while I did dream diaries, but I gave that up.
09/15/2010
usmcwife99 usmcwife99
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Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
I was thinking about doing one just don't really know what to write in it..Last night was fun with my boyfriend I could write about him telling me the dirty look he tells me I give him at work that makes him want to rip my clothes off...lol I ...
Nope, I know a friend whos got one thoe.
09/15/2010
Chilipepper Chilipepper
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Originally posted by Envy
Celibate means to abstain from sex, and in this case it's involuntary celibate because she can't find someone who isn't take (unattached).

I don't do diaries. Too many problems of people reading them. For a while I did dream ...
Yes, exactly. Thank you, Goth. There's a sadness to it.

Yeah, keeping diaries is near impossible when people don't respect your privacy.
09/15/2010
kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
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Originally posted by Chilipepper
Yes, exactly. Thank you, Goth. There's a sadness to it.

Yeah, keeping diaries is near impossible when people don't respect your privacy.
I wonder if I write sex diary on the cover it won't be read...u think your parent wouldn't want to know about your sex life..I could put a note inside that says if you are a parent reading your daughter's sex life you are a weird freak or somethin..oh ya my parents know and trust I'm just with my boyfriend they would never doubt that plus I stay home go to work the only person I see is my parents and boyfriend other ppl I see are the people I'm around at work
09/16/2010
Envy Envy
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Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
I wonder if I write sex diary on the cover it won't be read...u think your parent wouldn't want to know about your sex life..I could put a note inside that says if you are a parent reading your daughter's sex life you are a weird freak or ...
Some would, just because they want to know in some sick twisted way OR to stop their kids from 'growing up.'

I had a friend who's dad punched her in the face and broke her nose when he found she had been sexually active, got preggers, and had an abortion. She had to I think drop out and run off out of home from him. It was crazy.
09/16/2010
Jenn (aka kissmykitty) Jenn (aka kissmykitty)
I don't have a sex diary, but I do use Bedpost to keep track of when we have sex -- date, time, position, even my rating of it haha.
09/16/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
It would be cool if there was someone on here that typed theres and wouldn't mind letting me look then I could get more ideas LOL..is that weird?

a day planner whats that like a callender can u send a link to on sorry I probly used to know ...
It's a book calendar, with a month per every 2 pages, spread out.

There's a square for every day, I put code letters for what we did ("I" "O" "A" "M" then if we used a toy, the code for that, a "BD" if he only got a blow job, (the b plus his initial) then I code them in pink highlighter if I was able to have an orgasm and green if I wasn't. Then I put from one+ to 4 ++++ to describe the intensity. It is put either at the top of the square, if it was morning sex, or bottom if it was evening.

I actually DO have OCD, not just playing, not just MY diagnosis. I have the actual disorder. THIS is one of the things I do. I am a REALLY detail oriented person.

Now I gave my code away. And everybody thinks I'm crazy.
09/16/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Jenn (aka kissmykitty)
I don't have a sex diary, but I do use Bedpost to keep track of when we have sex -- date, time, position, even my rating of it haha.
Good, now I don't feel so bad.

OMG, I've never seen Bedpost before, yet it looks almost exactly like what I do in my Day Book. *sighs and wipes brow*
09/16/2010
kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
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Originally posted by P'Gell
It's a book calendar, with a month per every 2 pages, spread out.

There's a square for every day, I put code letters for what we did ("I" "O" "A" "M" then if we used a toy, the code for that, a ...
It's ok no I don't think its very crazy
09/16/2010
kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
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Originally posted by Envy
Some would, just because they want to know in some sick twisted way OR to stop their kids from 'growing up.'

I had a friend who's dad punched her in the face and broke her nose when he found she had been sexually active, got ...
well I wouldn't get hit and there's nothing they can do from keeping me from "growing up" I'm nearly 23..I guess who cares if they see it I'll just feel grossed out if they ever told me they read it or I found out. I'll just say it's sick to read it because I'm an adult and your daughter as a note on the diary.
09/16/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
It's ok no I don't think its very crazy
Thank you. I have children near your age (and children younger) and I think it's really disrespectful that your father doesn't honor your privacy. I NEVER go in my childrens' rooms, without being invited. (Except the Little Ones to put away laundry, change sheets etc.) I never go in the older kids' when they are not home, I don't go through their stuff. I am sorry you have to go through this.

Could your family come up with a written Contract for everyone to sign, specifying Boundaries, Rules of Conduct, Rent (if applicable) Room Entry, Clean Up, Other responsibilities etc? Our family has done this and also put a job chart on the wall or refrigerator. If you are over 2 in my house, you will work to live here. And, My Man and I will work to maintain your privacy and humility and to help support you. As you would do for us. ) Families go two ways, parents need respect and help around the house, and children need respect and know they are safe and loved and will be taken care of. Also, Rules of what everyone is expected to do is part of the Concept of our family.

A Contract puts it all down on paper, so there's no "you never said that." etc. It has helped our family, with a lot of strong willed children and also strong willed parents get along.

For instance, everyone over the age of 16 is expected to have an income of some sort, as well as attending school. If not attending school and done with High School, one is expected either a good solid part time job, or preferably a full time job. School plus a PT job is preferred by us. Children are also expected to have jobs like helping with dishes, cooking, cleaning. Adults have their jobs, also, and also in addition to respect and giving privacy, our kids have to keep earning our Trust by their behavior. In return My Man and I respect and support as well as we can. After college is finished, or if they quit, then they can either pay some rent (if their income permits it, after school loans, car etc) or get their own place. We will keep them on our insurance as long as we can, as well as giving moral support and a place to stay, if they need it.

A written Contract really helps these things stay on Course for us. You might want to bring this up with your parents.
09/17/2010
tigerkate tigerkate
I don't have a sex diary.. But I have kept an excel spreadsheet for people I date, which includes a portion for sex. I feel slightly weird about it, but I love to see trends. I mean, I include a name, age, how attractive I found them (which includes the chemistry i feel, not just looks), how many dates, religion, and then if it gets sexual. I'll try to say how many times, if it's possible, and then just general things about them in bed.
I haven't even slept with all that many men, but I find it intriguing to see it all out there organized.

Like, for instance, how the longer I am out there dating and whatnot, the more attractive the men I chose get. That sorta thing. And how the sex gets better, for the most part, because I learn what i like more and more..
09/17/2010
Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
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Originally posted by Chilipepper
I have notes scattered all over my notebooks and diary and such about my activity - all of it hand-written. Most of it is comprised of "He actually wants me - what's wrong with him?" (This all having to do with Mulder, of course.) Right ...
This is totally off topic, but there is nothing wrong with you! And nothing wrong with anyone that would want you! You just haven't found the right person yet.
09/17/2010
kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
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Originally posted by Tori Rebel
This is totally off topic, but there is nothing wrong with you! And nothing wrong with anyone that would want you! You just haven't found the right person yet.
I'm gonna go ahead with this sex diary..do u think the best way would be my-diary.org its free and u login with a password and its private...wat do u think the most fun would be? perhaps also a picture one when you are older would be fun to look at yourselves nude or wat about a tape where u record your thoughts of yourself and boyfriend?
09/18/2010
Naughty Student Naughty Student
I keep track of the good times in my regular journal. I go into the details and all. But since I have started Uni again, I have had no time to be writing in my diary.
09/18/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
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Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
I was thinking about doing one just don't really know what to write in it..Last night was fun with my boyfriend I could write about him telling me the dirty look he tells me I give him at work that makes him want to rip my clothes off...lol I ...
I don't have a sex diary but I do have a Bad Girls Pink Book Diary. Its the guys who have had things for basically. I got it in H.S. It was a lot of fun cause you could rate them on various things like eyes, dancing, humour etc.
09/21/2010
paralax paralax
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Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
I was thinking about doing one just don't really know what to write in it..Last night was fun with my boyfriend I could write about him telling me the dirty look he tells me I give him at work that makes him want to rip my clothes off...lol I ...
i write short erotic stories usually anywhere between one to ten pages. Their either romantic moments I've had with partners, kinky moments, or things a fantasize about with one person. I do go back to them on occasion because I like to see how I've developed in progression from story to story. I do code word everyone of them so nobody knows exactly who each one is about. There are a few people out there that decode them but not many.
09/22/2010
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