There are a few people I'm able to talk about toys and sex with. Not in great detail though. I was able to talk to a friend this weekend (she and her husband came over to hang out), and was able to show her EF. I talked her into buying her first vibe a couple of months ago (she's in her late 40's). I'm able to talk to her about sex and toys. She's not judgmental and contributes to the conversation. I do have friends I can't talk to about my sex drive (which is usually off the charts) or my toy collection (aka my obsession). My mom found out about my toys, and I made the mistake of talking to her about them. Now she brings them up randomly, or is always cracking jokes in front of people. Tells people I'm a sex addict and/or a sex freak. She thinks it's cool and funny, but it's not funny to me. It's one thing if she were to joke with family around or something, but she does this with her friends that I barely know. Ugh, it really pisses me off.