Do you or did you have a date rule for sex?

Martiniman Martiniman
Do you or did you have a rule for sex and dating that you wouldn't have sex until a certain number of dates had been had?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yes...I stick to it.
Coco85 , DreezzyyBabyy , SilverMinxxx , potstickers
4  (10%)
Yes, but I never stick to it.
ViVix , rosythorn , edeneve , Chelynn67 , Jenyana , Cindi025 , Katelyn
7  (17%)
No, but not a bad idea.
Sbmsvschoolgirl , BlooJay , SecretKinksters , Missmarc , Gunsmoke , Sora , Pejnya , Alyona , dv8
9  (21%)
No, I like sex to much.
Sera26 , Living Doll , GirlOnGirl , table38792 , RonLee
5  (12%)
No, I'm on the date looking for sex!
Dating isn't necessary for me to have sex.
KinkyKatieJames , hillys , Wicked Wahine , Real or memorex , GirlinDaCorner , Noelle
6  (14%)
Other...please explain.
Taylor , married with children , spiced , Ayumi , Carlie2010 , evie.amor , LavenderSkies , Peggi , SneakersAndPearls , PropertyOfPotter , breebree
11  (26%)
Total votes: 42
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03/22/2013
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Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
Do you or did you have a rule for sex and dating that you wouldn't have sex until a certain number of dates had been had?
I tried to make a rule of so many dates, but if a date was going bad yet I was attracted to that person...LOL
03/22/2013
DreezzyyBabyy DreezzyyBabyy
Yes & I stick to it. (:
03/22/2013
rosythorn rosythorn
Yes, and I usually stick it to it. FOr my current man the date rule got cut down by alot!! I guess that means he is worth it? =)
03/22/2013
Sera26 Sera26
I've tried this occasionally but I'm too horny to stick with any set rule.
03/22/2013
Taylor Taylor
I don't have a set number of dates before I sleep with someone. I think I wait longer than most people do though usually at least a couple of months. I think it helps weed out the guys who only want sex.
03/22/2013
edeneve edeneve
I never stick to them in the past, however, I did start to stick to one this past Sunday.
03/22/2013
married with children married with children
I did not have sex until I know that she was the one.
03/22/2013
Sbmsvschoolgirl Sbmsvschoolgirl
I haven't been out with very many people but I think I'm kind of all over the place. I kind of wish I had a rule and stuck to it.
03/22/2013
BlooJay BlooJay
I never had a rule.
03/22/2013
KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
I'm in a committed relationship, but we cuckold, so I have sex with other guys. I get to know them first, but there aren't always official "dates"
03/22/2013
GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
I like sex way too much for a rule like that!
03/22/2013
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Never had a set number of dates in mind, it only mattered if it felt right.
03/22/2013
Ayumi Ayumi
I've never had vaginal sex and intend to wait until I'm married.
I do engage in anal sex, but only with a trusted partner I intend to be with for an indefinite period of time. The one time I did casual, it was a horrible experience.
03/22/2013
Carlie2010 Carlie2010
Never needed to
03/22/2013
table38792 table38792
No I never had one. I felt that if things connected then why put up roadblocks? Sex is fun.
03/22/2013
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
Do you or did you have a rule for sex and dating that you wouldn't have sex until a certain number of dates had been had?
No, but not a bad idea.
03/22/2013
SilverMinxxx SilverMinxxx
Yes, before the relationship that I am in now. I always stuck to it.
03/23/2013
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
As a guy - I had a reverse strategy. I found it better - and a lot less frustrating for me, to wait until the girl I was dating really wanted to have sex. But I didn't have endless patience either. There was no fixed # of dates - just went with the feeling.
03/23/2013
Sora Sora
No, but not a bad idea.
03/23/2013
RonLee RonLee
LOL, with the majority of my long term partners, we for the most part, had sex in one way or another on the first date. I do of course count oral as well as digital as sex.
03/23/2013
Pejnya Pejnya
No, but not a bad idea.
03/23/2013
Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
I don't have a rule other than it needs to feel right for me. And right for me just hasn't ever been on a first date, however, it could happen.
03/23/2013
Real or memorex Real or memorex
It usually takes me awhile to decide to sleep with someone, but I don't have any rules against it. It's something I do if I feel like it.
03/23/2013
GirlinDaCorner GirlinDaCorner
No, it just depends on the person and what I Want that night.
03/23/2013
evie.amor evie.amor
When I was dating, it really depended on how well I knew the person to begin with. For example, if I was already friends or acquaintances with them before we went out I might feel more comfortable with them and sleep with them sooner than I would someone who just came into my work and asked me out or if a friend set me up on a blind date. Usually it takes a while to get me in bed though!
03/23/2013
sexyscreenname sexyscreenname
I have been lucky enough that the feelings in regards to that have been mutual, so no explicit rules have ever been needed.
03/24/2013
Peggi Peggi
I did have one, and aside from with my hubby I kept it. I required not so much a number of dates but how invested in the relationship the person was.
03/25/2013
Alyona Alyona
No, but not a bad idea.
03/25/2013
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
Do you or did you have a rule for sex and dating that you wouldn't have sex until a certain number of dates had been had?
No, I like sex to much.
03/29/2013
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