Do you use lighting to set the mood?

misterazor misterazor
in general, do you use blacklight, lava lamp, strobe lights, colored bulbs, neon, candles, etc...to set the mood for sex? more so, years into a relationship, do you still use lighting to set the mood? i think i'm going to put some effort into this soon. a little bowie and some blacklights!..could be fun.
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yes, in the beginning
froggygal91 , FemmeFlo , TheirPet , nikki0668 , PropertyOfPotter , Bubaloo , MnK , Beautiful-Disaster , FLIPxMODE , doowop , Hoshigetsu , RedKyuubi , LoooveMonkey
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yes, even later on in a relationship
Martiniman , froggygal91 , Kirill1171 , FemmeFlo , srexom , KinkyNicki92 , wicked weasel , padmeamidala , Hummingbird , TheirPet , nikki0668 , PropertyOfPotter , Kitka , Bubaloo , MnK , Beautiful-Disaster , MissCinnamonSpice , Loriandhubby , spiced , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , FLIPxMODE , RedKyuubi , SydVicious , sweetpea12 , EmuLove , Missmarc , LoooveMonkey , Mrs.Tee , SF
29
no, and no plans to
Rod Ronald , Rossie , Pururin , deltalima , G&L , amazon
6
no, but now i'm thinking about it
BrittaniMaree , Bleu , himynameissteph , sweetpea12 , ScorpioCurves , SepZet
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have in the past, but it's been a long time...and now i'm thinking about it
The Vixen , Strider , Beautiful-Disaster , BlooJay
4
have in the past, and set the bed on fire with the candles. bad times.
other
froggygal91 , FemmeFlo , Avant-garde , HarlequinBunnie , SecretKinksters
5
Total votes: 63 (48 voters)
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01/24/2013
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The Vixen The Vixen
It's been quite a while since I used mood lighting, I should do it more often.
01/24/2013
Martiniman Martiniman
Yes I do, but not every time.
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froggygal91 froggygal91
I have before but my it didn't seem to affect my husband any so I quit.
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Kirill1171 Kirill1171
yes, even later on in a relationship
01/24/2013
FemmeFlo FemmeFlo
I like to have soft lighting during sex. I don't want a bright overhead light - that feels like we're shooting a porno or something. I don't want no light, because that leads to fumbling and clumsiness, and I like to see my partner naked. So a bedside lamp is perfect... especially one where I don't have to get out of bed afterwards to turn it off.
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Rod Ronald Rod Ronald
I never really think about it. We have used candles for a little light at times, but it's just something we never think about.
01/24/2013
KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
when we plan our evening candles are usually involved. but most of the time now we dont. we did a lot at the beginning of the relationship.. but i think its because he felt like he had to try harder to impress me by setting the mood
01/24/2013
wicked weasel wicked weasel
I've tried it lately and it really helps set the mood.
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Incendiaire Incendiaire
I like soft lighting in the bedroom, it makes everything more intimate.
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TheirPet TheirPet
We have little middle-eastern lamps that we like to light sometimes with candles.
01/24/2013
Hummingbird Hummingbird
Yes low muted light sometimes with a scarf over it for color variance sometimes not. Not only that I spray some nice linen spray on the sheets, my rose petals and ready the room just as I were primping myself. Think about when serving a meal, you just don't throw food on the table, you enhance the place setting for each person.
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PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
We don't often, but we still do at times.
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BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
no, but now i'm thinking about it
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Kitka Kitka
Most times no but we will occasionally light some candles or use our dimmer bedside lamps for mood lighting when we're feeling more romantic.
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Avant-garde Avant-garde
Sometimes
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Bleu Bleu
I haven't before but maybe in the future.
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Bubaloo Bubaloo
Yes, in the beginning and later on.
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Rossie Rossie
We don't need anything fancy, because we always have a nightlight on.
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MnK MnK
In the beginning we tried different lighting to see which one worked best for us. We figured out 2 candles (one on each side of the room), and the tv on works the best
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Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
yeah.. sure.
01/24/2013
spiced spiced
One of our bedside lamps is very soft and it's wonderful for setting the mood. My favorite is firelight. I want our next house to have a fireplace in the bedroom!
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Pururin Pururin
No, we've never used special lighting and I don't have any plans to.
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FLIPxMODE FLIPxMODE
sure do
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himynameissteph himynameissteph
No, might be fun though...
01/24/2013
RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
We do use lighting
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G&L G&L
Not really.
01/24/2013
sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
in general, do you use blacklight, lava lamp, strobe lights, colored bulbs, neon, candles, etc...to set the mood for sex? more so, years into a relationship, do you still use lighting to set the mood? i think i'm going to put some effort into ... More
I have kind of, but I haven't strategically planned lighting
01/24/2013
EmuLove EmuLove
Hubby and I do most of the time
01/24/2013
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
in general, do you use blacklight, lava lamp, strobe lights, colored bulbs, neon, candles, etc...to set the mood for sex? more so, years into a relationship, do you still use lighting to set the mood? i think i'm going to put some effort into ... More
yes, even later on in a relationship
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