Does your SO know how big your collection of toys and Lingerie really is?

travelnurse travelnurse
My husband really doesn't know how big my collection really is. I think he might blow it he did. Does your SO know about all of it?
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yes
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48
no
deltalima , SMichelle , Willowe , Sodom and Gomorrah , chikisses , mama2007 , xilliannax
7
Other/Llamas
Dixiemomma , *Camoprincess* , KyotoAngel , Kiwi Green
4
Total votes: 59 (59 voters)
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08/27/2012
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Ansley Ansley
He'd have to be blind not to see it. It's scattered all over the house.
08/27/2012
deltalima deltalima
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Originally posted by travelnurse
My husband really doesn't know how big my collection really is. I think he might blow it he did. Does your SO know about all of it?
I need to go through it.
08/27/2012
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by travelnurse
My husband really doesn't know how big my collection really is. I think he might blow it he did. Does your SO know about all of it?
Arch doesn't know quite the extent of my collection but he's not really interested. Sigel, however, just bought me two large under the bed containers for my probes and vibes so he's well aware. He doesn't mind...he says it takes the pressure off of him to "perform".
08/27/2012
pirata pirata
he knows lol
08/27/2012
cricket cricket
Yes
08/27/2012
Lioncub Lioncub
He knows it's big and how full the storage shelving is, does he know what all is in there though...probably not
08/27/2012
travelnurse travelnurse
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Arch doesn't know quite the extent of my collection but he's not really interested. Sigel, however, just bought me two large under the bed containers for my probes and vibes so he's well aware. He doesn't mind...he says it takes the ... More
LOL
08/27/2012
travelnurse travelnurse
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Originally posted by Ansley
He'd have to be blind not to see it. It's scattered all over the house.
Mine is actually legally blind and he doesn't pay too much attention. He knows he likes UMA on his underside.
08/27/2012
sexfairy sexfairy
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
He'd have to be blind not to see it. It's scattered all over the house.
08/27/2012
raven pixie raven pixie
He knows how big my collection is though his favorite part is the lingerie
08/27/2012
Rossie Rossie
Sure he does, he's responsible for using them on me.
08/27/2012
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
She knows, I show them to her when I get new ones.
08/27/2012
SMichelle SMichelle
No, because we're in a long distance relationship. He knows I have a lot of lingerie -- I told him I have enough that I could wear something new for him everyday for at least 4 months, but he's never seen it all.

Toys... he knows I have a lot, but he has not seen them all.
08/27/2012
Willowe Willowe
I think my ex suspected that I had a lot, but she never knew the full extent of my collection. Which, the more I think about it, was probably for the best. I don't think things would have gone over well if she had found everything...
08/27/2012
Sammi Sammi
He knows, but I think he forgets until I go through a mad organizational period
08/27/2012
Rawr4483 Rawr4483
Yeah, he's the reason for half of it!
08/27/2012
js250 js250
DEFINITELY!!! Some of it is his. Plus we have the storage in our bedroom, built little nooks n crannies for items, etc. He is super excited about it, too!!
08/27/2012
Ex-prude Ex-prude
He has a couple in my storage, too, so yes
08/27/2012
Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
Yep, he knows.
08/27/2012
Dixiemomma Dixiemomma
he has an idea of how big it is but he's only ever really interested in the BDSM gear and lingerie.... my toys he just kind of glazes over lol
08/27/2012
Pixel Pixel
Definitely! He is on Eden as well, and even helps me pick out new toys.
08/27/2012
Alyona Alyona
Yes, I know
08/27/2012
travelnurse travelnurse
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Originally posted by Alyona
Yes, I know
LOL
08/28/2012
*Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
My partner has seen a pic of my collection since I laid it all out and did a blog post about it but, hell I don't even know how many toys,lubes and lingerie pieces I have. He hasn't seen the new stuff I just got or what is on the way but he will in time. I will say though you can't miss my collection when you come in my room it is scattered everywhere and if I had my own home it would be scattered through the whole house.
08/28/2012
Llahsram Llahsram
Yeah. She bought me all my toys lol.
08/28/2012
kendra30752 kendra30752
Quote:
Originally posted by travelnurse
My husband really doesn't know how big my collection really is. I think he might blow it he did. Does your SO know about all of it?
Yes he knows. No secrets between us two. I have a ginormous lingerie collection because I have had a fetish for lingerie for years. It's just that one thing I love to collect, splurge on to bring out some happy in me. My toys are pretty large, but in all honesty, there nothing compared what most people on EF have. I can fit all my toys in boxes under my bed and in my closet. I just buy what I think I'll really love, whereas lingerie, it's always a hit or miss when you buy. I love my sex items, and unless I had some sort of real problem or addiction or it was hurting our sex life any at all, I'd be damned if anybody had a problem with it. Lol. My partner and I use my toys on me during foreplay and stuff, so I don't have the issue with "replacing" my partner since he's never away or anything. It works out.

We have been together for 6 years though, so I could see having a new partner and being a tad reluctant to just throw your entire collection at them. I could see it being intimidating to a newer partner, so I do understand others' reasons for not showing it all. Nothing wrong there. I personally am in a long-term relationship where the toy/lingerie situation is comfortable for us both.
08/28/2012
kendra30752 kendra30752
PS. I am curious though, how on earth do you hide toys/lingerie from your SO? I mean if they don't live with you or spend a whole lot of time at your place, I guess it'd be soemwhat easy since you could hide things, but otherwise, how do you keep it a secret without them finding out? Well of course, unless your SO is new?
08/28/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I bought everyone of them - so yes I know
08/28/2012
sktb0007 sktb0007
Yes he knows of my collections. He has a larger toy collection than I do though so
08/28/2012
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