"You take things too seriously."
"Why can't you be casual about dating?"
"You're going to have to learn to be blaise about things."
"Go out and Live like the rest of us!"
"Are you all right? You're sitting here by yourself."
If not outright being ridiculed for referencing our personality type for any number of reasons and being told not to let a niche define who we are (which always puzzled me, because I was already that way before I knew the niche existed).
I get the general feeling that the majority just doesn't want to deal with taking it into account, and expect us to be as blaise and casual about everything as they are.
Maybe this is more of a rant, but I just cannot get the hang of doing things that other personalities take for granted - being appropriately sociable, casually dating, being in the middle of large groups at a constant energy, etc.
Any other INFJ's feel outcasted for being who they are?