I have a public persona which is friendly, bubbly and outgoing--many people have taken this in the wrong manner and thought I was being flirtatious. Trust me--if I was flirting, They would know it!!! Has this happened to you? Do you feel like you have to be 'guarded' when you meet/talk to others? What happened to just being friendly and not wanting anyone, (I am already with the one I want and have been for over 16 years....)?????