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Contributor: SexyySarah SexyySarah
Just curious if anyone has had a weird turn on for something that maybe they shouldn't?

Like ever since my OB/GYN delivered my first baby I have had the obsession to fuck him. I don't have any "feelings" for him or want to have a relationship with him, but it's more of a crazy sex fantasy that just happens while I'm in his office getting a checkup. I think it is soooo hot to think about. And he's not really that good looking, but he is sooo sweet, and married, it's like I want to corrupt him and be his nasty little whore. Sorry, if this sounds weird, I am married, and hubby knows all about this fantasy, and is totally cool if it ever happened, but if it did, do you think it would ruin our doctor/patient relationship? I'd like him to deliver my last child, so maybe I should wait it out! lol

Anyone else? Also, does anyone have any suggestions for me, maybe someone that has been in a "open" marriage, or have a threesome, cause I'd totally be open to that as well!
10/31/2010
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Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by SexyySarah
Just curious if anyone has had a weird turn on for something that maybe they shouldn't?

Like ever since my OB/GYN delivered my first baby I have had the obsession to fuck him. I don't have any "feelings" for him or want to ... more
It would have to ruin your doctor/patient relationship as that is considered unethical for a doctor to sleep with his/her patients. The logic is that a doctor is in a position of authority and power so the sex could be coerced or used to pay a bill. Also he/she could be compromised if he/she had to treat you for a serious illness or accident. The doctor could lose his professional distance and make a life threatening mistake or be paralyzed with fear. Where I live a doctor could be in jeopardy of losing his license if he sleeps with patients.

I don't have any persistent sexual fantasies like yours but I did dream about having sex with Spock once. Scared the bejezus out of me because I was an 'old married woman' of 5 years when it happened. I panicked and went and talked to my High Priestess and she just giggled and explained to me that women have 'wet dreams' too. I went to the doctor and he ran a hormone panel and that's when they realized that I had just gone into late puberty at the age of 25, which is why I hadn't been able to get pregnant.

Just a thought though, if your doctor is a sweet happily married man why would you want to hurt his wife? Has she done something that would make you want to cause her such emotional pain? You aren't talking about a man who has given you any indication that he is unhappy or looking to cheat on his wife, you are talking about seducing him. Do you really think it's a fantasy worth pursuing even if your husband would be ok with it?

If you want an open marriage then I suggest you start by looking for someone who is available to be in a relationship with you. A happily married sweet man more than likely isn't that person. It can't hurt to ask but like anything else sexual you could ruin a good doctor/patient relationship by talking about this. I'm more than willing to talk about either open marriages or polyamory, just drop me an email if you are interested.
11/01/2010
Contributor: SexyySarah SexyySarah
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
It would have to ruin your doctor/patient relationship as that is considered unethical for a doctor to sleep with his/her patients. The logic is that a doctor is in a position of authority and power so the sex could be coerced or used to pay a bill. ... more
Oh, not at all am I trying to hurt his wife, and she hasn't given me any indication to not like her. I have only met her once at a grocery store, and they don't seem to be "happy" but that was just an observation. It would be more if it was consensual, not to hurt anything in his marriage. I would never pursue it if it was going to hurt someone, because I turn and look at my own situation and I wouldn't want to be hurt, does that make sense? And NO, I am not looking to seduce him at all, I was talking about the fantasy that I think about in my head, I would only pursue this IF it was mutual between all parties. It's mainly a fantasy that I know in the back of my head will probably NEVER come true it's just fun to think about I guess.

oh and what you said about the doctor/patient I never thought about before, so yeah, definitely would be something we would be working the details out on! lol Thanks for the response though, it really got me thinking!
11/01/2010